pleasehelpmeout
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My youngest brother is unfortunately the most irresponsible of all of us. Last week while he was out with his buddies in college in northern NJ, he received a summons for a "minor in possession of alcohol." He's 19 and was at a party on campus where alcohol was available and probably through upper classmen. The party was raided and he was asked for identification and he was given the summons.
Now I understand his position but I still think he is a fool for not accepting that the law is the law. He says that the school knows about it and allows these parties all the time. It's really tough to fit in so he decided he would just hold a drink, not actually drink alcohol, just to appear to be like one of the guys. I know he's not a drinker even though I question whether he didn't really drink that beer. But he thinks it's not fair or proper to have these parties go on and then he is singled out and gets a summons and feels like it's entrapment. If anyone should be ticketed, it should be the organizers and not him who is the least offender of all just holding a half cup of beer.
He's not sure what to do and I don't know what to tell him. He probably should get a lawyer but it is expensive. I don't know how seriously these things are taken and it seems minor. But I don't know if this is a criminal matter or a civil matter and I don't want my silly brother to have problems later in life not making the right decision. He's 19 and should not be around alcohol although I understand his position. Anyone have any ideas?
Now I understand his position but I still think he is a fool for not accepting that the law is the law. He says that the school knows about it and allows these parties all the time. It's really tough to fit in so he decided he would just hold a drink, not actually drink alcohol, just to appear to be like one of the guys. I know he's not a drinker even though I question whether he didn't really drink that beer. But he thinks it's not fair or proper to have these parties go on and then he is singled out and gets a summons and feels like it's entrapment. If anyone should be ticketed, it should be the organizers and not him who is the least offender of all just holding a half cup of beer.
He's not sure what to do and I don't know what to tell him. He probably should get a lawyer but it is expensive. I don't know how seriously these things are taken and it seems minor. But I don't know if this is a criminal matter or a civil matter and I don't want my silly brother to have problems later in life not making the right decision. He's 19 and should not be around alcohol although I understand his position. Anyone have any ideas?