Assault & Battery Ex-girlfriend has falsely accused me of assaulting her

[katguardian]

I am due for court tomorrow 09072011 in dallas and i have looked up everything that i could find to help me out knowing i would never commit such a thing...she and i have been together since june and inspite of my love for her still i would overlook her ways and actions...on 08232011 i asked my girl for some money and she said we didnt have it...she went to the lvngrm and i followed her there to find out why not she began to say she didnt want to talk about it and started throwing things in the house and then cornered me to a door and began to get in my face...i asked her to calm down saying it wasnt that serious and she told me to get out her house. Well the house has my name on the lease as well so i told her no and she said that if me and my 11yr old son didnt leave she would call the cops and say i choked her when i didnt so me and my son left...the next day i had the cops meet me so i could at least get our clothes from the house and she refused to open the door...the cops told me bc she didnt open willingly i could through a brick thru the window and they wouldnt take me to jail...so now she comes to the door saying she has rights and then lied and said she never kicked me out that i was lying but that she wanted to press charges...on this same day i went to the property mgmt co and explained to them the issue at hand..now it's friday 08262011 & i was served papers at work for a temporary protective order...i havent seen or spoken to her since 08242011 the day the cops was present...i believe in god and know that the truth will set u free but i also know like she knows that she is lying and has caused me pain all bc i asked why we didnt have any money...the house we just moved into 08132011 becuase of my income bc she doesnt make enough and the rent was due on the 1st and now we both are looking at being evicted for a place that i havent been at the last 2wks...when it rains it pours...yes i love her still but i hate the situation she has put me through...how can some1 say they love u one day and the same day hate u...i just want this all to be over

 

[army judge]

Stop talking. Most of what you wrote is irrelevant.

When you appear in court, plead not guilty and ask for a court appointed defense attorney. Speak only to your attorney about this.

Stay away from her and the house. If you value your freedom, forget about your crap for now. Your lawyer will instruct you as to how you can arrange to retrieve the rest of your crap.

Stay outta trouble during the pendency of this matter.

 

[mightymoose]

You were not arrested... It sounds like you are not going to court for a domestic violence charge, but rather to answer to a request for a restraining order. That is a much different situation.
If that is the case simply appear in court and explain why you are not a threat to her or anyone else. It will be her burden to convince the judge that you are a danger to her and the order should be granted.
If you have already moved out and had no contact with her since the incident then she may not get her request.
Dress nice and don't look like a bum... and don't argue with her in court. Speak only to the judge when spoken to. Behave yourself and it may all go away.