Four years ago (1998), my son co-signed with his then mother-in-law for a car. Got divorced six months later. Mother-in-law died in Jan 2002 - spouse called reference the car - wanted him to pick it up and make payments. Spouse provided an account, phone number and Bank handling the account. After numerous inquiries, my son was repeatedly told his name and SSN is not reflected on their account info. Two weeks pass, and a Collections manager from the bank starts calling and demanding payment. When asked why two weeks previously, we were told he's not on the account - the reply is our paperwork was messed up. Have asked for copies of the paperwork. Found iout the car is titled in the deceased name only. If the car is Titled in her name only, and I cannot obtain the loan paperwork what is my options? Her husband wants me to "pick up" or else he's going to "drop off" the car - but if it's not in my name - can't they claim that I stole it? Is it proper procedure for the bank to call instead of sending a letter? Account is not listed on any credit reports (just received three different ones). What are the ramifications of voluntarily reposession or bankruptcy?