september2010
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Okay.. I'm 20 years old and I was involved with a man who is 15 years older than me. He always treated me horribly but it got a lot worse most recently. I found out that I was pregnant for the first time in my life and when confronted with this news, he immediately made it clear that he does not want a child with me and that having an abortion would be the best option because he would never love me or the child. He invited me over to his house the night I told him and the whole night he just abused me, verbally and dragging me along the floor etc. The next morning he said that he is not going to support me either decision i make and that our relationship is over and i should leave him alone. i didnt know how to deal with this and went downhill emotionally, very quickly. i have suffered from depression for 7 years and made an attempt on my life july 2009. anyway, i tried to call him numerous times after this and he would not answer one of my calls, although i begged for him to not leave me to cope with this on my own, i was so scared. he wouldnt answer, so i went to his house, and i did something very stupid indeed. i smashed the window, i climbed in and i destroyed his tv in his bedroom, his laptop, and his flatscreen tv in the front room. i climbed back out of the broken window. he made a report to the police as i stupidly admitted it in a text message to him. the police contacted me about 2 weeks later saying that i need to attend the police station for burglary. i was so very scared, but i went, and i was charged with burglary with the intent to cause damage. 4 days after i'd committed this crime, i had an abortion, and i completely crumbled to pieces. i went through it on my own, completely. the day after i'd committed the crime i went to walk in front of a train and the police were called and i was taken to the hospital to be assessed. i have to appear in the magistrates' court in 10 days and i am so scared there are no words. i really really dont want to go to jail because i didnt commit the crime in a malicious way, i was very emotionally frustrated, and i had trouble dealing with the situation i was in. i just want to know what anybody thinks my possible sentence will be, and truthfully. i'm very scared but i need to know what to expect so that i can prepare myself. thank you in advance..x p.s this is my first offence. x
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