Fearful4Real
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:angryfireMy brother was accused of sexual abuse on my nephew by my nephew. My brother obviously denies the charges. My sister and I are really close and she has told me on several ocassions before my brother resided with her family that my nephew has been witnessed to be in inappropriate situations with his sisters. My nephew was between 5 and 8 when these things had occurred. At first, she was told when she requested professional counseling it just may be the age and exploring (but I don't think so). One particular time, my nephew had told my sister that a man at school showed him his penis in the boys' bathroom. My sister asked, what man? My nephew replied the man who talks like me. This was never looked into. Nor was any other questionable situation. My brother is now serving prison time and refuses to admit to doing something that he didn't do. They hit him with the book hard and he still hasn't faltered. I don't feel my sister, as much as I love both of my siblings, followed through carefully or responsibly. Now, my nephew "alters" his story or "forgets" exactly why his uncle is in jail. I don't believe he was coaxed to lie, and this is why:
When I was placed as a ward of the court in California, I was sexually abused but couldn't remember or "didn't know" who I was molested by. So, I accused those persons close to me. (Later I found out it was my father's friend, though I don't remember all the details).
I think he was scared and acted out with his sisters and couldn't remember who possibly abused him, so he may have accused the newest person to join the family (even after all these initial pervious problems occurred) or the one he felt closest too. I say this, like I said, from personal experience.
My brother now has to register as a sex offender. Is there anything he could do to fight this still while he's in jail or when he gets out? Does he have a leg to stand on or? Like I said, I don't think his case was properly investigated. Much thanks.
When I was placed as a ward of the court in California, I was sexually abused but couldn't remember or "didn't know" who I was molested by. So, I accused those persons close to me. (Later I found out it was my father's friend, though I don't remember all the details).
I think he was scared and acted out with his sisters and couldn't remember who possibly abused him, so he may have accused the newest person to join the family (even after all these initial pervious problems occurred) or the one he felt closest too. I say this, like I said, from personal experience.
My brother now has to register as a sex offender. Is there anything he could do to fight this still while he's in jail or when he gets out? Does he have a leg to stand on or? Like I said, I don't think his case was properly investigated. Much thanks.
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