I don't know what to do. We are in debt well over what we can handle. We bought a house in 2001. We owe more than the house is worth. The payment keeps going up and the value keeps going down. My husband got 2 personal loans and we put it into fixing the house up in hopes of refinancing it. The result is we owe so much and are unable to pay all the payments. We are behind in taxes too. Is bankruptcy going to help us? We are thinking it's time to give up and let the house go. It's still in bad shape and we could never do everything that needs to do done to sell. Homes take years to sell and an inspector would nail us with everything that needs to be done. We are now in our 50's and our children are almost all gone. Our youngest son is now moving out of state and that will put lots of pressure on my husband. What should we do? Does anyone know?