I read that on one of these sites, frankly I am in information overload.
Of course ... there's a lot of info and MIS-info out there.
A lot will depend on how your county handles such things - and this can be varied. In my county she would get diversion and there would be no record - this would be the case in a number of others as well. If it DOES go to court, then it is possible she will pay the fine, do the community service, and get counseling. She would also have to deal with the license suspension (which could mean a one year delay in obtaining her license).
Only if she were to get probation with conditions that included to remain away from all alcohol would there even be a slight chance of going to juvenile hall for being around alcohol. In my experience, I cannot see that happening. If she gets probation at all, she will likely have informal probation (no probation officer, but has to stay out of trouble) and may be subject to search and test for alcohol.
She is only 14 - 15 this weekend. There are 27 kids involved here. The citation says to appear "on or before" xx date. Is it better or worse to go in a group? Make any difference to wait or go now?
Is the appearance in to Juvenile Court, or Traffic Court?
Often, the court wants to look at the parent's involvement - and future involvement. In other words, how are YOU going to address the issue? It has been my experience that if a parent steps up and - if asked - offers a plan on how to prevent this from happening again, the court will act very leniently. I suggested a couple of ideas that you might consider for any future social events that your child attends. Your daughter is the same age as my oldest son, and I can tell you that my plan has thus far worked. My son has reported that because of the inquiry and inspection insisted upon by my wife and I, he has been asked not to attend only one party ... when he told me the name of the person hosting the party, I could understand why - alcohol and drugs were almost certainly going to be present. if the party is on the up and up, and properly supervised by RESPONSIBLE adults, then they will not have a problem with my talking to the hosts and taking a quick look inside. If they DO have a problem, then I believe they have something to hide and I would not want my child there.
ANY way ... appearing independently might make you stand out. It might benefit you to appear alone so as to stand out for the better. You might consider contacting Juvenile Probation and asking to speak to someone who might be handling this matter (assuming it is going through Juvenile probation as most such matters do). You might be able to arrange diversion that way.
And, it might benefit you to at least get a free consultation with an attorney. Whether it will be worth spending $1,500 to go to trial on the matter is up to you ... but, an attorney might be able to give direction for pre-trial diversion that your locale will support.
Good luck.
- Carl