Keep your answers brief and to the point of the question(s) asked of you. Don't ramble on with irrelevant information. Make some notes ahead of time regarding specific dates, times and events so you can refer to them.
Do I just submit my evidence, be quiet, answer questions, and let the...
If you decide you do want to go to court, you will be going with the contract that you wrote. Does it address in detail what will happen if he doesn't pay? In order to put a lien on the title you will have to sign the title over to him. Putting a lien simply means he can't sell the car without...
"No one is supposed to touch or grab anyone in a workplace" That's what you said.
I repeat, people touch people at work all the time. I didn't say it was okay to grab someone and shove them away.
Whoever has the car needs to get the recall done then problem solved. This business of not being able to sell cars with open recalls is fairly new, and I've only seen it with regard to selling new vehicles, so I don't see necessarily that anyone did anything "wrong".
What I tell my employees is they can have formal 15 minute breaks, or they can go to the restroom, take a personal phone call, take a snack break etc whenever they need to, informally, but they can't have it both ways.
You have issues that need counseling, not legal intervention. Allowing her parents to stay and not yours, are really separate issues. There is no law that says if your parents can stay, then so can mine.
Have you talked to the attorney generals office. Seems to me that arrears should automatically stop once you are caught up. Before you call read all of your paperwork carefully and see if the answer is in there. It may just be a matter of the AG sending a notice to your employer.