I agree that you need - at minimum - an attorney consult. Check out law schools w/in a reasonable driving distance - many offer legal clinics to help their students gain experience.
This sets my teeth on edge. Your g/f really shouldn't be involving her girls to the extent of sharing their Dad's texts with them. Asking them, in casual conversation, how they feel about your level of involvement is one thing, sharing Dad's texts? Not cool and only puts them in the middle.
Did the judge "mention" that in the order?
Also - does your son attend full- or half-day K? Does the school offer before/aftercare, and does your son attend that? Just curious.
TY. I was wondering the same. Use a tissue to wipe each blade dry? I can understand the "why" as it can kill the grass - I usually just pour some water to dilute the urine (I have three dogs). Same after cleaning up poop if it's a bit... uuhh... messy. Sidewalk? Water hose.
Also not getting...
Is your friend? How about the therapist (who will expect to be paid for their time, travel, and accommodations)? Do you understand that this may require multiple trips?
And guess who gets to pay for it to be released? That's right, boys & girls - @Jaimec1220. I believe proof of insurance will be required, as well. If they refuse to do so? Well, there's a different kettle of fish. The impound lot/tow truck company WILL get their money, and so will the...
I don't want to pile on, but has it occurred to you that she does this due to the chaos of having an alcoholic mother?
I agree with the others - get into treatment and get a lawyer. ASAP. At this point, it's hard to find fault with Grandma.
So daughter went to college She is exposed to new people and ideas and forms opinions that Mom/Dad don't agree with. Age-old story.
The more push-back you/Mom give, the more firmly she'll plant her feet. And frankly? Taking back the car as a result of your disapproval?Petty and spiteful.
Further thoughts after reading @commentator 's post... perhaps try to find out when the less... mindful... aide is on at mealtimes and try to be sure to be there on those days. Sounds as though there is at least one aide who takes more care. The problem with getting that one aide in "trouble" is...