Adjusterjack,
I am reading the statutes, its just too late. :-) I think section b spells it clearly. That said, I truly appreciate your courteous and factual attempt to guide me. I learned a costly lesson and now have some vocabulary to go hire a lawyer and try to get this fixed. To be clear, I...
Elle,
Are you a physician or do you live in Maryland? I appreciate your attention to my plight, but fail to see how any of your comments are helpful. The scenarios you present are fiction. You are correct, he has no legal obligation to her or my kids, nor do I to support him. North Carolina DOES...
AJ,
I came to alleged professionals for guidance, your answer was curt and judgmental. I am 53 and work two jobs to funnel money into her abusive and controlling talons. Yes, I screwed up but I am not the same guy I was a few years ago. I deserve a life now too, how is it fair I have to continue...
In NC, a couple must be separated (individual addresses) for one year before a divorce is granted. She drafted this with a separation date of a totally different date (year prior) than actually happened. I was not willing to face the felony for falsification if it had been verified so I did not...
Ok, I took B Law in college and understand adjusterjacks answer. I understand there are TWO types of Separation agreements. One is court ordered the other is not, it is just a "contract" between the two parties. We have the second. CBG threw in the Court Ordered phrase. She filed for absolute...
What makes in enforceable? I have NO PROBLEMS AT ALL paying Child support, I cover them for health insurance and give her a $1200 a year medical spending account to cover copays and office visits. 70% of agreed upon incidentals (like sports, scout camp, etc...) I do however have a problem...
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AJ,
When the term Domestic Abuse is brought up, people automatically assume man on woman. I am here to tell you that was NOT the case in my marriage. I wanted out so bad I would have given up almost anything to get away. Yes it was a "bad deal" and I am still far better off to be...
We do not have a court ordered agreement, she filed and was granted an absolute divorce. We (naively) did our own separation agreement and had it notarized, so it is just a contract. Terms to terminate alimony are half the time we were married or actual remarriage. Cohabitation was not written...