Recent content by Owensmom

Awesome! Thanks for the quick reply.

I've never been married, and have a 2 year old. The only thing that has been established with the father is paternity and child support. Their is no custody order/visitation rights or anything. He is not on the birth certificate. Can I leave the state/ country without his consent? Is it...

If the day care expense isn't court ordered you wouldn't HAVE to pay it. But if you'd like to pay it why don't you just ask her for some stubs, and if she refuses don't pay it.

No I just thought what you said was funny

No he doesn't even have a job he's mooching off everybody he can to pay for it.

Yes, the child is with her. And is their other ways of a divorce not using abandonment or desertion, without an address?

No, he's not in the military. Will she have to wait 12 months for desertion? And their is also a 4 yr old child involved. Thanks alot for your advice

My sister in law wants a divorce from my brother. they got married in Georgia and she is now living in Florida. He went awol up to tennessee staying in a hotel. He wont give anybody an address. I'm guessing he's going to need to be served or something how can she file without an address?

Yea thanks everybody. I definately try to encourage the relationship. I actually me tup with him today. He appologized for everything, but unfortunately the situation will be the same :( In time I guess....

hahaha ....men

Lol I'm certain he could be a good dad if he chose to be, but right now he's not. So what I'm saying when he chooses that he wants to be we'll still be here. Right now it's like forcing him, and putting me through hell.

So basically it would still be the same? He would come around only if and when he wanted to and I couldn't ignore him...if he continued to be a dead beat? I think I might just let him take care of custody orders if he so chooses. Which I highly doubt he will. He never persues his son. It's...

when he takes him he takes him to his mothers house because he has had drug issues and has drug users living there with him and I do not want to risk anything with my son. Would I beable to ask for his visitation/custody to be at his mothers house? And also what if he doesn't comply with the...

I have an upcoming court date for child support. And through that we can get paternity and legitimation completed. I know that will protect me financially, and the legitimation will protect my son with social security if anything happens to his father. What else would you suggest doing?

I have an 9 month old son, and his father only comes around if he is cornered to come around. We end up making arrangements for him to take him every other weekend and every thursday overnights. He'll stick to the agreement for his first week of taking him than I won't hear from him for weeks to...