That's actually not a bad idea... because she definitely has put him through all that. I will suggest that to him, thank you.
All I can say on his behalf, from talking with his 3 now-adult children and himself and hearing all of their sides of the story, my friend did not sue her for divorce...
He does have a lawyer, one who is supposed to be one of the best in the area when it comes to divorce. Can she really get half of his retirement? I mean, she cheated on him, did/still does drugs & was/is a drunk, the children can all testify on his behalf, and she was the one who left him in...
I am posting this question in regards to my best friend who is being horribly wronged by his wife. He is an outstanding citizen, soldier, and father (he basically raised the kids himself, and continues to financially aid them); she was an absent parent, adultress, and drug-addict/alcoholic...