Update, he finally had his pre-trial with a court appointed public defender (costs us $50). He did what the PD suggested with the plea of "no contest." The judge ordered $680 in fines to be paid off within 6 months. He won't be allowed to try to get the Class B Misdemeanor expunged for at least...
Thank you again. I'm trying to keep my chin up. So much is coming to me that totally explains his behavior over the years of marriage. It's kind of relieving to know the why, but upsetting to know it's a very challenging disorder - even with meds and therapy.
I'll update on this thread if you'd...
Thank you for the virtual hug via words.
So should he request a PD at the court date on Monday, or do that beforehand?
I will apply for assistance tonight/tomorrow. I hadn't thought about disability though. Isn't that very hard to receive?
How do I request a psych eval for him? Or does he do...
As of this recent Monday, he has lost both jobs (the "main one" was lost due to a major depressive stage and he screwed up royally). So currently, we have no income. He's actively looking and at this point probably has a newspaper delivery job while looking for a more stable one.
I would guess...
armyjudge you have been extensively helpful! You've also helped calm my broken, angry heart for a moment.
If you have time, a few more questions...
*If I'm understanding correctly, he is to go in on his court date, plead not guilty, and petition for a PD (we make 37k - is that...
He's going to set up an appointment with the prosecutor tomorrow (the court told him today that it's better to come in for an appointment than call for an appointment).
So, when he goes to the prosecutor, does he make sure to say that he is pleading not guilty and then requesting a PD...
Definitely not an excuse, but more of a psychological understanding. From talking with my therapist about this, basically when they are unmedicated and in a manic phase, they think they are indestructible. They also do things without thinking it through because of the manic state. They also tend...
I realize now that by using the word "impulsively" I sound like I'm not taking this seriously. Or that I think it is no big deal. That is entirely wrong. This is a huge deal. This has affected the person(s) he stole from, the place of business he did this with, himself, and our family of four...
I'm in shock - considering that my husband has no prior record other than one speeding ticket in the last year. This is his first and only criminal offense.
My husband (of 14 years and 4 wonderful children) delivers food for his second job. About 10 days ago, he stupidly/impulsively added a...