Thanks for your advice guys.
She really did a good job tricking me. Now that it's to late to do anything I just feel like a dumbass for believing her when she was telling me this was the easy route and she just wanted me to be happy.
Live and learn
The problem is I'm a dumb ass and gave her everything she wanted, which you'd think after having paid for her to go to college for 5 years while she didn't work and then moving to Chicago so she could leave a few months later that I would know she would continue to screw me over if she could and...
So I looked at the docs I have signed and there is no date on them?
I'm not sure if this would help me, but she has really screwed me over when I was trying to be nice to her. So I'm kind of looking for a way to force her into full filling the few small requests I've made of her.
Yesterday I received a copy of my divorce judgment. So I read through it not expecting anything odd, but I notice that the date of separation listed on it is 11/22/09 which is 2 months prior to her leaving me. That seemed odd, so I do a little research and find that for a divorce in IL you...