Recent content by jaysma

We have already gone to court for that situation. We had witnesses she called her father and said I am hurt and upset and don't want to see you he said fine when your ready call me. He didn't contact her for months after and that was only after I took him to court to try and get supervised visits.

my apologies I am on here from work and I try not to be on for long periods so I type in when I can and sometimes overlook things like that

Also my reasoning for going would be the support system for US not me...I am ok alone it is more for my child. We lived with my parents for 6 years and she is very close with them, they currently live a half a mile from us on the same road and my mother is involved in my daughters daily life. As...

Why would I move closer to a person who was physically abusive towards me? He has a past history of drug abuse and didn't see his daughter for a total of 3 years by choice. Although it may sound good this is a man who sees his child when it is good for him. I would rather do without the extra...

It's like I am damned if I do damned if I don't. My parents would help foot the bill to send her to see her father if that was the only issue at hand. I read your post and I text him and said I am thinking of moving to Florida next year, you would be able to get visits with your daughter during...

I haven't had an official talk with him about it I think I would rather wait until it gets closer to that time because it won't be for another year, BUT in the past he has told me he won't let us go if we want to leave and he will never let me have a life. He has a very controlling personality...

Just wondering...we have joint legal but I have sole physical custody. He has visits every other weekend and he moved 45 mins north of me, living on the border of NJ and NY now nearly 4 counties away. I live in central jersey..I dont' think any of that matters BUT. I am wondering if I can move...

Oh my! Aside from all of this I was just curious about false imprisonment. I thought they would check in the system to see if their is a warrant for non payment of support and then arrest you not arrest you on heresay for non payment...just saying that's what I thought...regardless yes this is a...

In all the years I never had these issues with the courts. The first time I had the issue I retained the attorney already but he hadn't had a chance to do anything. I figured now after that happened and we filed the motion to reconsider and it was denied and then when he filed new motions and he...

We checked the address both times and they had it correct the first time they didn't send out anything at all the second time they sent it out the day before court. Which again I WAS aware of but I was aware that it was being done on paper and they did not want us to appear. They changed their...

I made the comment that I don't want to live my life like that anymore because you asked the question do I want to keep living my life like this.... The attorney said the judge put in the order that my mother or sister will pick up the child on my behalf and he can't order someone to do...

I don't want to live my life like this any longer. I didn't want him to have the extra day because my daughter doens't want to be with him and he WAS ordered to complete counseling with her which he never did. I feel as though he should do that if he wants to see her for extra time. I need...

I came here for advice that is it....I have tried looking elsewhere and wasn't getting any info I needed this is why I am here. All I have done is asked for advice I would appreciate it just be at that.

I also had a few other little questions just curiosities didn't know if I should post them here or start new threads please let me know and then I will proceed with the questions. Thanks in advance for your help this site seems way better than the other one I was looking at

Proserpina, I have a question related to this...when I went to court initially years ago I wanted sole custody and the judge told me that he was giving us joint legal but me primary physical. His reason for that was because he said he gave it to everyone and joint custody would mean that the...