Recent content by jacklantern

FlaRiptide, Thank you for your reply. Yes, I agree that I'm thinking of this too much. I'm not too familiar to be in this situation, in fact I was getting crazy in the beginning: I slept 4 hours total during the first week of ordeal and haven't eaten once. About counseling: Is she required to...

Thank you, army judge, My wife seems to completely give up on lies (I always know when she lies: she gets angry when caught to be lying - not happened too often except this time,) at least at this time she feels completely exhausted and willingly cooperates answering my questions, even the most...

Thank you FlaRiptide, Will go to the police. What warning sign have you noticed? I have never been cheated on before, even in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationships, so I do not have enough experience in noticing red flags. My wife, from the beginning of this situation, was kind of reluctant that...

Thanks mightymoose, Though it doesn't hold anything I hoped for, I appreciate your feedback. army judge said the police may be interested to know about Mike. As my second opinion, what would you say about that? Should I try to talk to a police officer? Since my wife stopped getting mad at my...

Thanks, army judge, again, My wife says she didn't want to tell me the truth at once because she felt very guilty and she knew how much pain in me this could cause. When I discovered everything, she was already becoming weary of Mike's behavior (Mike: I love you, I want you - My wife: But I...

Thanks army judge, I will go to the police precinct to talk about this situation(not very sure they will take it seriously, though.)

I just talked to my wife again. She admitted seeing him THREE times, and that he sent her about $400 money plus two parcels of gifts involving his relative in the Bronx where we live. She admitted that he gave her a cell phone meeting her after her English class at Lehman college. After that he...

Thank you, army judge, I am considering marriage councelling, but for now, it seems that everything is just as wonderful and excellent as in the very beginning of our relationship. As if we are experiencing everything once again. My wife completely denounced Mike and joined me in the quest of...

Hello, My wife is a stay-home mom who arrived from Russia 3 years ago. She's still learning English and didn't have chance to work in the US because she got pregnant soon after arrival. She's a legal resident (green card holder.) Since I was the only worker for the family, and we don't have any...