Don’t you think this is what family and friends are for ? I used to be part of that family, going for dinner every day and chatting. I think adults involve other adults, it just depend on how close the person is (in my opinion).
That’s why I want to send the email. Maybe they can talk to her to find out. This is an Asian family so they are somehow close to each other. The fact that they didn’t know about the engagement was always baffling to me
I don’t believe time is a factor when it comes to emotional trauma. Time doesn’t heal. Only answers do that’s why I want to find answers but I also need to be rational and careful not to step over others boundaries
My girlfriend broke up with me 4 years ago. It is still devastating as we were engaged and had marriage plans. She woke up one day telling me that we don’t match. Her parents didn’t know about the engagement. 2 years back she stared showing at my martial arts dojo and I had to stop going that...