I do want to be with her now and in the future but you are right that issues like this cannot work if we get married with kids, etc.
That's the reasoning I try to rationalize with her that there are consequences either way. It depends on her where she wants those consequences to affect her or...
Yes I completely agree with everything you said. It isn't her problem but her heart doesn't want to separate the children from their mother if that happens. She's passive.
I don't want to be controlling but honestly myself and her father will be pushing her to cover herself over anyone else. I...
Unfortunately she is very passive and doesn't like confrontations nor problems. Yes, I know this isn't her fault or anything she caused but it is stressful that myself and her father (separated from her mother) are both pushing her towards reporting her relative while she still worries about...
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My girlfriend recently discovered that one of her family members that is undocumented is using her SSN for employment purposes. This family member knew the SSN...