She really hasn't threatened to do anything except send the videotapes to my wife. No threats of physical violence or constant harassing contact and she hasn't been stalking around our house as far as I know. So unless the threat to reveal the video is grounds for an RO, I don't think I have any.
I'm not sure if this is the correct forum, but it has to do with divorce.
I am married and was having problems with my marriage and started having an affair with another woman. My wife did not discover my infidelities, I stopped the affair and am now in the process of working through the...