Recent content by candi123

And i do have my children now they are happy and cared for thats all that matters. My situation was there abusive father that i needed help getting away from. NOT everyone is a dead beet. I never quit being mom. I have been there every step of the way. Again your using what you have seen over...

Ok of course the job and home are important for caring for a child. I never said it wasnt. But being in a relationship has absolutly nothing to do with it ill argue that till the end ive been a single mom for 8 yrs now and there are over millions of single men and single women doing the same...

Ive lived here for over 10 years. I hardly see that as a habit of packing up and leaving. There are numorous reasons for my decision, but being homeless and jobless isnt one of them. So again there u go assuming.Some times its just time to move on and havent you ever heard of transfering peaple...

Also what part rather limited or not would make u assume that i was homeless or jobless ?????

yes i do except the relationship which i dont care for but i dont see how thats got to do with the price in china.Has nothing to do with raising my children.

Again like i told the other commenter dont assume if you are unsure just ask it takes longer to assume something than to acually ask. I have plenty of options out of state where im planning on leaving to. Ya im not well off like they are but neither is over half of aerica and last i checked the...

Well for starters peaple dont get paid to assume. I have everything i need rather it be here or to where i am planning on going. Im not that immature to pull my children out of a stable enviroment just to put them in a uncomfortable situation. I thank you for your response. But please dont...

to jharris352 Yes i understand that, but what about me wanting to leave state w them when i go for them, Is that going to be a problem ?

im still looking for some answers i hope there are more responses than the one i got that was acually worth any thing looking forward to hearing from u thanx in advance

to jharris352 Thank You that is the info that i needed to know not critisism for left out details which i said if needed to ask or puncuation and grammer which everyone seems to be more worried about than acually answering the question but ya thats what i needed to know and ya up untill 4 mths...

no court order Yes that is what im saying there is no court order. I was just in a bad position a few yrs ago and instead of dragging my kids around w me she offered to take care of them till i got back on my feet well nothing i have done since then is good enouph. I have wrote a note so...

to jharris352 ok well i dont no if u fully read my statement but i will say again i have not abandoned them i was in a bad situation a few yrs back and she so called offered to help which she has but it has gone to far i was in there life fully school docters sickness food money all the above...

yes that is what i am saying i was at a point where i was going to be homeless and in and out of a abusive relationship w her son which i still am and she offered to take them for a little while tilli could get back on my feet well i have not been on my feet good enouph to her standards she says...

Wow i dont no where to start or details that are needed to answer my question but here goes. I have 2 children ages 6 and 7 that hve lived w there grandma and grandpa (mother and step father of my kids dad ) for 4 yrs now do to me trying to make the right desition for them at the time during...