She isn't claiming that they raped her...it was completely consensual sex. She didn't have any idea that they were filming it. I'm pretty sure she got things cleared up at this point with them. She threatened them with legal problems if the video wasn't deleted, and they felt horrible for...
Yes...she received a media message via her cell phone w/ the video attached from her ex. and with a message included stating he was sending it to everyone.
My friend had a little too much to drink a few weeks ago and ended up sleeping with her ex boyfriend and his friend. They videotaped her without her knowledge or consent. They are now sending the video to friends, and threatening to send it to even more people. What are the laws in NY state...