Alec Basil
New Member
- Jurisdiction
- Missouri
When I was 14 years old, I was removed from an abusive home (my mom and her girlfriend of 13 years) and placed in the care of my Great Aunt. Mary (my mom's girlfriend and my abuser) went to court and a no contact order was placed between her/me and her/my mom. The no contact order is still in place as far as I know.
My mom ended up getting custody of me back after a long battle, and Mary was talking to me again. I was fine with this as she was much nicer. My mom, Mary, and I ended up moving in together into an apartment.
Mary started to get mean again, and at some points it was to the point where I would walk out the front door and go for a walk when she was in her room. Then we moved into a hotel room, and it was worse. I started not wanting to go home at all. So after a month long argument, maybe longer, my mom and Mary ended up relenting and letting me stay with my boyfriend (who lives with his mom and little sister), which is where I currently reside now.
Plans have been made by my boyfriend, his brother, some friends, and I to get a place together, and it has to be soon as one of the friends is getting kicked out of his house.
I start my first job next Tuesday at an IHOP where my mom is part-time managing, and hopefully my boyfriend is going to, too.
The only problem is, my mom and Mary will most likely raise up hell about me moving. They might even try to make me live with them again. My mom was going to be my ride to work, which is in independence, and I'm moving to the outskirts of Blue Springs by Burr Oak Woods. I'm not looking forward to her finding out I moved, and if she finds out the address, she might try to take me back to her and Mary.
My Great Aunt is currently going through bankruptcy, so I don't think she'd be approved to be my legal guardian again.
I am currently sixteen, but turning seventeen the day before the estimated date of the move.
The only card I really have on my mom and Mary is that its illegal for me to live/talk to Mary, but to pull that would mean they would both go to jail, as they are on probation. I don't really want them to go to jail, but I don't know what else to do. About the move, and the job (since my mom is my ride).
Any advice?
My mom ended up getting custody of me back after a long battle, and Mary was talking to me again. I was fine with this as she was much nicer. My mom, Mary, and I ended up moving in together into an apartment.
Mary started to get mean again, and at some points it was to the point where I would walk out the front door and go for a walk when she was in her room. Then we moved into a hotel room, and it was worse. I started not wanting to go home at all. So after a month long argument, maybe longer, my mom and Mary ended up relenting and letting me stay with my boyfriend (who lives with his mom and little sister), which is where I currently reside now.
Plans have been made by my boyfriend, his brother, some friends, and I to get a place together, and it has to be soon as one of the friends is getting kicked out of his house.
I start my first job next Tuesday at an IHOP where my mom is part-time managing, and hopefully my boyfriend is going to, too.
The only problem is, my mom and Mary will most likely raise up hell about me moving. They might even try to make me live with them again. My mom was going to be my ride to work, which is in independence, and I'm moving to the outskirts of Blue Springs by Burr Oak Woods. I'm not looking forward to her finding out I moved, and if she finds out the address, she might try to take me back to her and Mary.
My Great Aunt is currently going through bankruptcy, so I don't think she'd be approved to be my legal guardian again.
I am currently sixteen, but turning seventeen the day before the estimated date of the move.
The only card I really have on my mom and Mary is that its illegal for me to live/talk to Mary, but to pull that would mean they would both go to jail, as they are on probation. I don't really want them to go to jail, but I don't know what else to do. About the move, and the job (since my mom is my ride).
Any advice?