My girlfriend was just served with an Emergency Protective Order on her two kids, ages 4 and 1. Then 10 days later she was served with a restraining order by her soon to be ex husband, restraining her from contact with him and her two kids. There are claims of domestic violence on her towards him dating back to 2006 and none of them have a police report to go with them. All of them are also either false or so badly altered they became something else entirely. Then there are the reports of child abuse on her 1 year old son. She asked the father to come pick him up early on his visitation day to take the child to urgent care because of a fever he had since the previous day. Right before he left with the kid he sent my girlfriend a text message saying, "if you ever threaten to keep my kids away from me, you'll fucking regret it. Bitch." Hours later she was served with the first set of papers. The main question here is what she should and can do to avoid legal troubles, and what she should and can do to prove that not only are the claims against her false but to prove that the ex husband is the one responsible for the child's injuries?