In 2004, my new husband, my eldest and I moved up North for my husband's career. My ex had been trying for 5 years to get custody of our child w/no success, but I knew how bad of a legal battle would ensue if I asked to take my youngest w/us up North, so I switched to NCP w/out of state visitation... to avoid my daughter being caught up in a court battle. HE refused child support at the time. I am back 3 years later, my ex wants child support now. I know I have to pay it, so please no demeaning comments about my obligations...but we returned with infant natural triplets with a lot of medical issues, my hubby works 2 jobs so that I can stay at home w/them, not to mention the cost of daycare- if they could even get in, due to their medical issues. Will that be taken into consideration when configuring my amount, or is it just..sorry about your luck...find the money.
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