I had sexual relations with a young woman with whom I worked part time 3 years ago. She was a collage student who was from Texas. I am in New Jersey. About a month later, she told me that she thought she was pregnant. Soon after that, she moved back to Texas and I have not heard from her and have no idea how to contact her. My (now former) employer did not maintain her application and contact info, so I had no help there. She, however, had my phone number and knew where I worked. My former employer has just informed me that they have recieved a document from the Office of the Attorney General Child Support Division of Texas seeking my current employer (the spelling of my name was wrong, so I assume that's why they could not find me). I have considerable doubt that I am the father, but it is possible.
I am now recently married and my wife and I are trying to start our own family and are in the process of purchasing a condo, with the closing date less than 2 months away. I am not interested in being the father of a child that I did not know about, especially in my current marital position. Our financial situation, while stable, is somewhat precarious as we can afford to live there and make the payments, but our budget will be tight. I have read through the applicable sections of THIS WEBSITE and it does not look good for me. I have a rather long laundry list of questions concerning this.
1 - Should I go ahead and call the Attorney General's (for now on, Ill refer to them as AG) office myself and spare my former employer the legwork, or should I let them handle it?
2 - IF I contact the AG, would I be given the name of the child and parent? Am I permitted to know any personal information, like where and when the child was born? Medical records?
3 - How long will it take for the AG to process an ararngement? In other words, how long before I have to start making payments?
4 - Do I have to pay for the paternity testing?
5 - Would I be responsible for retro child support, even though I had no knowledge of this child?
6 - Despite the fact that the child was concieved in New Jersey and both parents where living in New Jersey at the time, the case would be held according to Texas law since the mother and child are residents of Texas, I assume. Does that mean that if there is a hearing, that I must go to Texas?
7 - Did the mother violate any of my rights or any law by leaving the state and not giving me any method by which I could reach her?
8- What percentage of my salary is garnished for child support? Is it from my gross or net income? Are my benefits included in the gross income?
9 - Would the mother be eligable to recieve money from me for medical expenses during the birth or any expenses incurred by care for the child?
I am very frightened and confused by this turn of events, as the timing is very poor and I could lose my home before I even get into it due to the financial strain.
Answer whichever questions you can. I appreciate any help. I know this is a monster of a post.
MJG
I am now recently married and my wife and I are trying to start our own family and are in the process of purchasing a condo, with the closing date less than 2 months away. I am not interested in being the father of a child that I did not know about, especially in my current marital position. Our financial situation, while stable, is somewhat precarious as we can afford to live there and make the payments, but our budget will be tight. I have read through the applicable sections of THIS WEBSITE and it does not look good for me. I have a rather long laundry list of questions concerning this.
1 - Should I go ahead and call the Attorney General's (for now on, Ill refer to them as AG) office myself and spare my former employer the legwork, or should I let them handle it?
2 - IF I contact the AG, would I be given the name of the child and parent? Am I permitted to know any personal information, like where and when the child was born? Medical records?
3 - How long will it take for the AG to process an ararngement? In other words, how long before I have to start making payments?
4 - Do I have to pay for the paternity testing?
5 - Would I be responsible for retro child support, even though I had no knowledge of this child?
6 - Despite the fact that the child was concieved in New Jersey and both parents where living in New Jersey at the time, the case would be held according to Texas law since the mother and child are residents of Texas, I assume. Does that mean that if there is a hearing, that I must go to Texas?
7 - Did the mother violate any of my rights or any law by leaving the state and not giving me any method by which I could reach her?
8- What percentage of my salary is garnished for child support? Is it from my gross or net income? Are my benefits included in the gross income?
9 - Would the mother be eligable to recieve money from me for medical expenses during the birth or any expenses incurred by care for the child?
I am very frightened and confused by this turn of events, as the timing is very poor and I could lose my home before I even get into it due to the financial strain.
Answer whichever questions you can. I appreciate any help. I know this is a monster of a post.
MJG