- Jurisdiction
- Hawaii
Aloha, I have a step-son who on his 8th Bday my wife (**his biological mother) got him a smartphone. As we have done with our 2 oldest children my wife installed a parental monitoring app the child's device. The device is in his mother's name and she pays the bill.
A little back history:
When my wife and the biological father went to family court close to 7 years ago it was ordered that my wife was the primary custodial parent and father non-custodial....50/50 but the child would reside with us. My wife has always tried to be civil with the father and not put any hardships on the boys father. The verbal arrangement between them is:
The child will live with the mom primarily.
The father can have the boy holidays and summertime otherwise resides with mom during school year.
Father pays no child support.
And they rotate claiming child on taxes every year.
This past summer the boy asked if he could stay for this school year
Hesitant, my wife asked him some questions and ultimately for the sake trying to work together with the father and trying to accommodate the child request she allowed it. On his 8th Bday in Oct 2017 my wife bought another phone to have sent to him so they would have ease of access to each other and his siblings. Before the phone was sent my wife installed the app we currently use for our other kids for parental monitoring and the phone was sent.
During the past 5 months my wife would check up on the boy and his activities but noticed something unexpected....the boys stepmom was going on his phone and changing settings, deleting photos of our family,
A little back history:
When my wife and the biological father went to family court close to 7 years ago it was ordered that my wife was the primary custodial parent and father non-custodial....50/50 but the child would reside with us. My wife has always tried to be civil with the father and not put any hardships on the boys father. The verbal arrangement between them is:
The child will live with the mom primarily.
The father can have the boy holidays and summertime otherwise resides with mom during school year.
Father pays no child support.
And they rotate claiming child on taxes every year.
This past summer the boy asked if he could stay for this school year
Hesitant, my wife asked him some questions and ultimately for the sake trying to work together with the father and trying to accommodate the child request she allowed it. On his 8th Bday in Oct 2017 my wife bought another phone to have sent to him so they would have ease of access to each other and his siblings. Before the phone was sent my wife installed the app we currently use for our other kids for parental monitoring and the phone was sent.
During the past 5 months my wife would check up on the boy and his activities but noticed something unexpected....the boys stepmom was going on his phone and changing settings, deleting photos of our family,