- Jurisdiction
- California
My ex-boyfriend will not leave the apartment we've both rented.
I found out that he's been cheating after years of dating. He gave me Herpes and HPV, and for quite some time I've been asking him to leave. He will not and now it's escalated to the degree that he verbally threatens me.
I am afraid that I wouldn't be eligible for a Restraining order as he has not hit me, and he says that's the only reason he hasn't hit me yet.
He does say the following: "If I wanted to be mean to you, I'd throw you down the stairs (yes we have stairs), and crush your fucking head in". Also, "if you try to throw me out, I'll just burn the fucking house down with you in it".
I do sleep with the door to my room locked and have pepper spray all over the house hidden, and do not even eat food he cooks or drink coffee he makes cause I am just not sure what he means and what he claims is just "words when he's angry". I've never had anyone threaten me like this and it's now gotten to be too much. I am falling apart and desperate.
I found out that he's been cheating after years of dating. He gave me Herpes and HPV, and for quite some time I've been asking him to leave. He will not and now it's escalated to the degree that he verbally threatens me.
I am afraid that I wouldn't be eligible for a Restraining order as he has not hit me, and he says that's the only reason he hasn't hit me yet.
He does say the following: "If I wanted to be mean to you, I'd throw you down the stairs (yes we have stairs), and crush your fucking head in". Also, "if you try to throw me out, I'll just burn the fucking house down with you in it".
I do sleep with the door to my room locked and have pepper spray all over the house hidden, and do not even eat food he cooks or drink coffee he makes cause I am just not sure what he means and what he claims is just "words when he's angry". I've never had anyone threaten me like this and it's now gotten to be too much. I am falling apart and desperate.