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I have lived in my home (a rental) for over four years. Over the last year I have lost my job (receiving unemployment), all expenses have gone up as with everone. The last year I struggled tremendously to keep up on the rent and utilities. Up until this month I have NEVER missed a months rent. Last month he told me he was raising the rent another $400 knowing full well I couldnt do that. At that time I told him I would be out by July. He said June 30, I said ok no problem.
Here is the problem. In order for me to come up with the first month, security deposits etc I was unable to pay the rent this month. It was due May 1st. I told him I would be out by June 30th and I understand that I would owe the months I missed and would pay him off once I was living in a much more affordable location.During that conversation he said "ok" My current rent is $2500 plus all utilities. I am a single mother of three.
Yesterday he knocked on the door and handed me a notice to appear in court the first of June. He also said that at that time the judge would tell me I have 72 hours to leave or I would be locked out. Is that possible???? I have absolutely nowhere to go yet. No family and no money. I receive a small pension from my ex husband, child support (small amount) and my unemployment. Because of that income I do not qualify for any public assistance. However the rent being so high I have zero savings to just up and go in a week. I am not a flake. I had a job making 70k a year when I signed the lease 4 years ago. It was a one year lease and have never been asked to sign a new one.
Bottom line to this long winded question...Is there really a chance the judge will say I am to be out within 3 days of the court date? I will honestly be homeless with my children. NO their father WILL NOT ALLOW THEM TO LIVE WITH HIM. "They will interfere with his new life with his wife and her kids"
In reality, legal reality, will I at least be given 30 days?? I really need 45 but I could maybe find something suitable in 30. But I still wont have anymore than One and a half months rent for the new place. HELP PLEASE. I cant sleep and have no idea where we will go. Thanks in advance.
I live in suffolk county, town of Brookhaven.
Here is the problem. In order for me to come up with the first month, security deposits etc I was unable to pay the rent this month. It was due May 1st. I told him I would be out by June 30th and I understand that I would owe the months I missed and would pay him off once I was living in a much more affordable location.During that conversation he said "ok" My current rent is $2500 plus all utilities. I am a single mother of three.
Yesterday he knocked on the door and handed me a notice to appear in court the first of June. He also said that at that time the judge would tell me I have 72 hours to leave or I would be locked out. Is that possible???? I have absolutely nowhere to go yet. No family and no money. I receive a small pension from my ex husband, child support (small amount) and my unemployment. Because of that income I do not qualify for any public assistance. However the rent being so high I have zero savings to just up and go in a week. I am not a flake. I had a job making 70k a year when I signed the lease 4 years ago. It was a one year lease and have never been asked to sign a new one.
Bottom line to this long winded question...Is there really a chance the judge will say I am to be out within 3 days of the court date? I will honestly be homeless with my children. NO their father WILL NOT ALLOW THEM TO LIVE WITH HIM. "They will interfere with his new life with his wife and her kids"
In reality, legal reality, will I at least be given 30 days?? I really need 45 but I could maybe find something suitable in 30. But I still wont have anymore than One and a half months rent for the new place. HELP PLEASE. I cant sleep and have no idea where we will go. Thanks in advance.
I live in suffolk county, town of Brookhaven.