judgement2020
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Firstly, I am a medically retired USMC Iraq combat vet. Everything I am saying here applies to me. I am honestly and truly am innocent, there is absolutely no reason to lie on a forum with people I do not know. I just need some advice cause in the corner and about to lose everything I love and hold dear to me.
To start, I relocated to Alaska from California in 2011 with my wife at the time. She is unmedicated bipolar, I have PTSD. I ended up getting a misdemeanor DV assault(for creating fear?) and plead no contest in early 2012 while in Alaska. I had probation for 3 years. Since then we had a kid, moved to Illinois and and she gotten me a battery charge in mid 2014 where I agreed to anger management and pay a fine, I just wanted to go home and be with my kid. Enough was enough and I finally I requested and got my divorce finalized and received full custody of my kid a few months ago, also I wont allow overnight visitation because of how unpredictable she is. I literally have recordings from our time together of where she threatens to hurt herself to get me arrested, smashing he head in the wall, jumping up and landing on her knees. Scary stuff.
In any case, I looked up records a couple weeks ago and realized since late 2014 Ive had a warrant for my arrest in Alaska, about 9 months its been open. I am very worried about this because I am remarried, my wife is pregnant and currently going through the immigration process, I COMPLETELY FEAR my kid getting in my exes hands with how negligent and careless she is and I am about to close on our first home in roughly 5 weeks days.
The worst part about all of this is the fact I just got an battery charge 4 days ago from someone who completely lied to get me in trouble. It is obvious that they do not fear purgery. The person came to my house with a letter about the "debt" owed, I walked outside and said if we go to court you will lose....around 10ft distance away from them while they were sitting in their car. After I walked back in, they called the cops and said I pushed them into the ground creating a bruise. Cops came to my house and told me the allegations, I said it wasnt true and was honestly shocked. I thought they were there because of an argument. I looked like a deer in headlights when they said your under arrest for battery. Even with my wife telling the story the same as I did and they still arrested me for battery with no real reason besides the word of another. I was released on my OR within 2 hours but still has a $2,000 bond attached. I have court in about 4 weeks.
The thing I dont understand is how could they arrest me with only 3 witnesses, 2 being my wife and I that know nothing happened? Also this was in BROAD DAYLIGHT!!! What kind of idiot would do that!! So to me I dont even think the police had probable cause. They didnt even let me give me story. They also did read my Miranda rights until I was being released!!
Anyway, now I am very worried about my life because of this. With the upcoming court date I fear the warrant will be brought up and get extradited to Alaska, if so I will instantly lose my daughter to that nut case, possibly my new house and I have no idea how it will affect my wifes immigration....
To start, I relocated to Alaska from California in 2011 with my wife at the time. She is unmedicated bipolar, I have PTSD. I ended up getting a misdemeanor DV assault(for creating fear?) and plead no contest in early 2012 while in Alaska. I had probation for 3 years. Since then we had a kid, moved to Illinois and and she gotten me a battery charge in mid 2014 where I agreed to anger management and pay a fine, I just wanted to go home and be with my kid. Enough was enough and I finally I requested and got my divorce finalized and received full custody of my kid a few months ago, also I wont allow overnight visitation because of how unpredictable she is. I literally have recordings from our time together of where she threatens to hurt herself to get me arrested, smashing he head in the wall, jumping up and landing on her knees. Scary stuff.
In any case, I looked up records a couple weeks ago and realized since late 2014 Ive had a warrant for my arrest in Alaska, about 9 months its been open. I am very worried about this because I am remarried, my wife is pregnant and currently going through the immigration process, I COMPLETELY FEAR my kid getting in my exes hands with how negligent and careless she is and I am about to close on our first home in roughly 5 weeks days.
The worst part about all of this is the fact I just got an battery charge 4 days ago from someone who completely lied to get me in trouble. It is obvious that they do not fear purgery. The person came to my house with a letter about the "debt" owed, I walked outside and said if we go to court you will lose....around 10ft distance away from them while they were sitting in their car. After I walked back in, they called the cops and said I pushed them into the ground creating a bruise. Cops came to my house and told me the allegations, I said it wasnt true and was honestly shocked. I thought they were there because of an argument. I looked like a deer in headlights when they said your under arrest for battery. Even with my wife telling the story the same as I did and they still arrested me for battery with no real reason besides the word of another. I was released on my OR within 2 hours but still has a $2,000 bond attached. I have court in about 4 weeks.
The thing I dont understand is how could they arrest me with only 3 witnesses, 2 being my wife and I that know nothing happened? Also this was in BROAD DAYLIGHT!!! What kind of idiot would do that!! So to me I dont even think the police had probable cause. They didnt even let me give me story. They also did read my Miranda rights until I was being released!!
Anyway, now I am very worried about my life because of this. With the upcoming court date I fear the warrant will be brought up and get extradited to Alaska, if so I will instantly lose my daughter to that nut case, possibly my new house and I have no idea how it will affect my wifes immigration....