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Ok so here's my issue. When my son was about 8 months old I needed some help due to post partum depression. So I agreed to sign over temporary guardianship of him to my mother. She then continued to kick me out of her house multiple times, pulling me in and out of his life on a regular basis that was not my choice at all. Once I had gotten fed up with things I tried to take her to court when he was two in order to get the guardianship reversed. The judge then set a later date to determine custody and would not let me defend myself when my mother lied and told the court that I had moved away on my own accord and on purpose to hurt my son. who by then was in the process of going through treatments to help him catch up developmentally with other toddlers his age. I do agree that at that time I was not in a fit situation to have my son with me. But now that time has passed. He is almost 5 now. She has not made any progress on visitation. It is always in her house and she has complete say so on when or if I can see my son per the custody and child support hearings. I have had a steady job for over a year now. I have lived in a house that has had an extra room only for him for about 7 months. before that I still had a safe living situation for him to be in. but still no visitation with me. I have offered multiple times to help out with transportation, health insurance, giving her a break, offering to take him while she had surgery, and many other things but she always finds someone else to do it instead or turns my offer down. I guess im just at a dead end, and not knowing much about what my rights are as a non custodial parent in this situation I don't know what I can demand from her legally. I also am unaware of the next steps I would need to take to obtain custody of my son again. if you could please give me some insight or information on this I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you so much.
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