I have been married for 23 years seperated for 4 but not legally. My "husband" married another woman last weekend.( i was informed by my 21 year old son) We have 2 minor children as well. The other woman knows we are still married. My husband and his "wife" are not aware I know, he had my minor children lie about their activities last weekend. They do have a baby. I have been on a waiting list for assistance for a divorce for 11/2 years. What should I do legally?