My Ex Step-dad is threatening me with sending my private pictures

[Abiiii]

Jurisdiction

Texas

Alright, here's the problem.
After 8 years of verbal abuse, my mom finally broke it off with her now ex who I considered my stepdad, since he came into my life when i was 9 years old. When we lived together he got my mom and I, phones. Well I was in a relationship for 2 years with a nice, genuine guy. Me and this guy had sent nudes to each other ( we're both 17), and it was all on the phone my ex stepdad gave me.
Fastfoward a while and the relationship between my mom and my ex stepdad got worse, he yelled a lot and there was a lot of arguments which would turn into yelling EVERY SINGLE DAY. And the day after my mom broke up with him he kicked us out and we left and took our belongings, except our phones. So i made sure i deleted all of our social media, and google accounts and i factory reseted the phones before we gave them back to him.
My mom and i got new numbers and we moved out of state so he wouldn't bother us anymore. But we started getting phone calls from my uncle telling us that my moms ex kept going to his house and saying bad things about us and that he had pictures of me that weren't appropriate. And that he kept threatning to send my pictures to my family. Keep in mind im 17 and i factory reseted my old phone, and changed all my passwords and deleted that number from all accounts where i know he can change my passwords using that number. It's been 2 months and he's still threatning my mom and I saying hes going to "expose" me.
My other uncles told him to leave them alone and to stop showing up at their property already, but he responded with saying he has a gun and if they try doing something to him that hes going to get revenge, which they never threatened him in the first place. Now my other uncle told him to stop showing at his housevas well but he simply won't stop and he now uses my old number to try and contact my family.
I want to know if there's ANYTHING I can do. He wont leave us alone and he keeps threatning my family with saying hes going to send my "nudes". He also keeps falsely accusing my ex with saying that hes tge one sending him the pictures which im 100% sure hes not doing that.

 

[ElleMD]

This isn't your problem. Your uncles need to involve law enforcement if the guy is threatening them with guns and claiming to possess child porn. BTW, dear bf can also get into trouble, as can you, if you are sending, receiving, or possessing nude photos of anyone under 18. Send all the fully clothed selfies you want. A "nice, genuine guy" does not encourage his underage girlfriend to send those kinds of pictures nor does he send them to her. Despite what you might hear other teens bragging about, this is NOT normal behavior, nor is is legal. In any state. It is not a great idea at any age as once those pictures leave your possession, you lose control of them.

 

[army judge]

Alright, here's the problem.
After 8 years of verbal abuse, my mom finally broke it off with her now ex who I considered my stepdad, since he came into my life when i was 9 years old. When we lived together he got my mom and I, phones. Well I was in a relationship for 2 years with a nice, genuine guy. Me and this guy had sent nudes to each other ( we're both 17), and it was all on the phone my ex stepdad gave me.

I hope you understand that BOTH of you violated the law by trafficking in NUDE pictures of minors, even your own.

Even as an adult, its never a good iea to give anyone a nude picture of yourself.

My mom and i got new numbers and we moved out of state so he wouldn't bother us anymore. But we started getting phone calls from my uncle telling us that my moms ex kept going to his house and saying bad things about us and that he had pictures of me that weren't appropriate. And that he kept threatning to send my pictures to my family. Keep in mind im 17 and i factory reseted my old phone, and changed all my passwords and deleted that number from all accounts where i know he can change my passwords using that number. It's been 2 months and he's still threatning my mom and I saying hes going to "expose" me.
My other uncles told him to leave them alone and to stop showing up at their property already, but he responded with saying he has a gun and if they try doing something to him that hes going to get revenge, which they never threatened him in the first place. Now my other uncle told him to stop showing at his housevas well but he simply won't stop and he now uses my old number to try and contact my family.
I want to know if there's ANYTHING I can do. He wont leave us alone and he keeps threatning my family with saying hes going to send my "nudes". He also keeps falsely accusing my ex with saying that hes tge one sending him the pictures which im 100% sure hes not doing that.

Logic tells me that the only way the loony tunes former consort of your mother's IS getting the alleged NUDE photos is from your almost as LOONY former friend.

Look, you're in another state.

I suggest you ignore this nonsense.

If you don't, it could blow up in your face because you and the other person could get charged with a felony, trafficking in "child porn".

You have nothing to gain.

You can only lose, and lose big if you keep this madness alive.

Trafficking in "kiddie porn", especially using the airwaves to do so, is a federal offense.

The feds aggressively prosecute those crimes, and very rarely do they lose their case.

Such a conviction could cause you to be required to register a sexual offender, and forever wear the badge of shame of "child pron trafficker", even if half of it was your porn.

Don't listen to anyone who starts spouting this mess, and even if the LOONY, former mate of yoru mom's send the pictures (assuming he even has one), he's the one who could get charged with "trafficking in kiddie porn".

Silence is your friend.

Let your enemy cut his own throat.

 

[leslie82]

Alright, here's the problem.
After 8 years of verbal abuse, my mom finally broke it off with her now ex who I considered my stepdad, since he came into my life when i was 9 years old. When we lived together he got my mom and I, phones. Well I was in a relationship for 2 years with a nice, genuine guy. Me and this guy had sent nudes to each other ( we're both 17), and it was all on the phone my ex stepdad gave me.
Fastfoward a while and the relationship between my mom and my ex stepdad got worse, he yelled a lot and there was a lot of arguments which would turn into yelling EVERY SINGLE DAY. And the day after my mom broke up with him he kicked us out and we left and took our belongings, except our phones. So i made sure i deleted all of our social media, and google accounts and i factory reseted the phones before we gave them back to him.
My mom and i got new numbers and we moved out of state so he wouldn't bother us anymore. But we started getting phone calls from my uncle telling us that my moms ex kept going to his house and saying bad things about us and that he had pictures of me that weren't appropriate. And that he kept threatning to send my pictures to my family. Keep in mind im 17 and i factory reseted my old phone, and changed all my passwords and deleted that number from all accounts where i know he can change my passwords using that number. It's been 2 months and he's still threatning my mom and I saying hes going to "expose" me.
My other uncles told him to leave them alone and to stop showing up at their property already, but he responded with saying he has a gun and if they try doing something to him that hes going to get revenge, which they never threatened him in the first place. Now my other uncle told him to stop showing at his housevas well but he simply won't stop and he now uses my old number to try and contact my family.
I want to know if there's ANYTHING I can do. He wont leave us alone and he keeps threatning my family with saying hes going to send my "nudes". He also keeps falsely accusing my ex with saying that hes tge one sending him the pictures which im 100% sure hes not doing that.

If he threatens you himself, call the cops. You do realize that in some states there are laws against minors taking nude photos - even if they take the photos themselves. Some states, even the teen who takes a nude photo of him or herself could be prosecuted for child porn. Just fyi.

If you deleted all the photos and reset the phones, where would he get them? Is he some kind of tech savvy person who knows how to access deleted photos on a factor reset phone? If not then he's just being an ass. Ignore him. Tell your uncle to stay away from him and if he keeps harassing your uncle, he can call the cops.

 

[mightymoose]

If you deleted all the photos and reset the phones, where would he get them? Is he some kind of tech savvy person who knows how to access deleted photos on a factor reset phone?

These days you don't have to be tech savvy to do this. You have to be more tech savvy to ensure destruction of the files.

 

[army judge]

These days you don't have to be tech savvy to do this. You have to be more tech savvy to ensure destruction of the files.

There's an APP for that!!!