Is she a scam or trouble?

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Met her on a free porn chat room, she says she is 22 and lives with her boyfriend. She seemed real and not a bot. We did text. I always tried to talk normal to her. But she seems to be into sex talk and sharing pics. She said she is poly and her boyfriend sleeps around. She doesn't text much. But her texts are kind of broken up in code. From her pictures she is a cute thin blonde. She sent me pics without me requesting any. I was hoping she could leave him and be my girl. She has a Texas cell number but said she lives in ann arbor MI. She said she wants to meet me. In her pictures, her tattoo on her arm is different in each picture. I'm wondering if she is a dude or just a Nigerian?
 
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I'm wondering if she is a dude or just a Nigerian?
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Might be a dude, or possibly a dudette.

Whatever it is, or isn't, IT IS TROUBLE.

Heck, might even be a 10 year old girl or boy being held as a sex slave.

A romance scammer stole $660K from a Wakefield resident. Now, she's going to prison for it.
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Whatever it is, adult, minor, BOT, or ALIEN from another solar system, or even a law enforcement official, it means TROUBLE for you.


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Yeah I was thinking either sex slave or Nigerian. I ran into lots of Nigerians posing as a woman on Facebook years ago. I've learned some of their tricks. Some of the sex scammers are a bit new to me. Thanks for feedback. I never used my real number to text.
 
Usually cops use hot woman , same with scammers , but this one looked frail and genuine in pics anyway.

I was on a dating App like okc, a German exchange student was staying in WI, she was a blonde and thin and said she is open to a boyfriend while away from her boyfriend. She never had sex with her boyfriend. She said she doesn't have an ID to drive. Sounds like she has a passport. I wasn't able to login into my account so maybe Lady Luck was on my side keeping me from that , if it was trouble.
 
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wasn't able to login into my account so maybe Lady Luck was on my side keeping me from that , if it was trouble
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You betcha, brother.

My simple suggestion, don't fool with ANY of those sites.

I'd prefer to live my life as a hermit or a monk, before I'd ever go on any site looking for a date or sexy.

No sir, I'm not looking to get infected with some sexually transmitted disease, or have some dude (pretending to be female) steal my life savings of $12.45!!!!!!
 
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In her pictures, her tattoo on her arm is different in each picture. I'm wondering if she is a dude or just a Nigerian?
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That's a pretty good clue the photos are likely fake. You can't change real tattoos with a snap of a finger and no one would go through having a new tattoo done on the same area so frequently. When you go to a porn site, you have to assume that almost every interaction you have there will try to ensnare you into some kind of con to empty your bank account even if the people aren't faking the pictures.
 
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Photo by: Grants Pass Police Department via AP
This undated photo provided by the Grants Pass Police Department shows Benjamin Obadiah Foster.

Foster, accused of torturing a woman he held captive in Oregon, and who was convicted in Nevada of keeping another woman in captivity, is using dating apps to find people who can help him avoid the police or to find new victims, authorities said Friday, Jan. 27, 2023.


SALEM, Ore. (AP) — A man accused of torturing a woman he held captive in Oregon, and who was convicted in Nevada of keeping another woman in captivity, is using dating apps to find people who can help him avoid the police or to find new victims, authorities said Friday.

Benjamin Obadiah Foster, 36, is the subject of an intensive, round-the-clock search by police after a woman was found unconscious, bound and near death in Grants Pass, Oregon, on Tuesday. She was hospitalized in critical condition.

On Thursday night, Grants Pass police, sheriff's deputies, an Oregon State Police SWAT team and federal agents raided a property in the unincorporated community of Wolf Creek, some 20 miles (32 kilometers) north of Grants Pass, where they seized Foster's car and arrested a 68-year-old woman for hindering prosecution.

Foster managed to escape. Authorities provided no other details, but the area, right off Interstate 5, is thickly forested and mountainous.

The arrested woman, Tina Marie Jones, had followed Foster in a vehicle earlier Thursday as he drove to a remote location in Wolf Creek then intentionally drove his 2008 Nissan Sentra over an embankment, according to court documents. Jones then gave Foster a ride to the property that was raided Thursday night and where Foster had been hiding while police searched for him, according to Josephine County Circuit Court records.

Grants Pass Police Chief Warren Hensman told AP on Thursday that it is "extremely troubling" that Foster was out and able to prey on other women instead of still being behind bars for the Nevada crimes.

In 2019, before moving to Oregon, Foster held his then-girlfriend captive inside her Las Vegas apartment for two weeks. He initially was charged with five felonies, including assault and battery, and faced decades in prison upon conviction. But in August 2021, Foster reached a deal with Clark County prosecutors that allowed him to plead guilty to one felony count of battery and a misdemeanor count of battery constituting domestic violence.

A judge sentenced him to up to 2 1/2 years in a Nevada prison. The 729 days he had spent in jail awaiting trial were factored into his punishment, leaving Foster with fewer than 200 days to serve in state custody.

Foster's girlfriend suffered seven broken ribs, two black eyes and injuries from being bound at the wrists and ankles with zip ties and duct tape during her two-week captivity, according to a Las Vegas police report.

The woman also told police she was forced to eat lye and was choked to the point of unconsciousness.

She escaped when Foster let her out of his sight during a trip together to a grocery store and gas station.

Court records show, Foster was out of custody at the time on a suspended jail sentence for carrying a concealed weapon without a permit. He also was awaiting trial in another 2018 case involving domestic violence. But Foster's plea deal with prosecutors in 2021 settled the domestic violence case, a copy of the agreement shows, and he was "sentenced to credit for time served."

Police in Grants Pass, a town of some 40,000 in southwest Oregon, said Foster is believed to be armed and "extremely dangerous."

"We are using every piece of technology available to locate this man," said Hensman, the police chief.

Hensman said he didn't have time to think about how authorities in Nevada handled Foster's crimes there.

"Whatever happened in the past," he said, "we can talk about those situations later."

https://www.kxxv.com/news/police-warn-that-oregon-torture-suspect-is-using-dating-apps
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Photo by: Grants Pass Police Department via AP
This undated photo provided by the Grants Pass Police Department shows Benjamin Obadiah Foster.

Foster, accused of torturing a woman he held captive in Oregon, and who was convicted in Nevada of keeping another woman in captivity, is using dating apps to find people who can help him avoid the police or to find new victims, authorities said Friday, Jan. 27, 2023.


SALEM, Ore. (AP) — A man accused of torturing a woman he held captive in Oregon, and who was convicted in Nevada of keeping another woman in captivity, is using dating apps to find people who can help him avoid the police or to find new victims, authorities said Friday.

Benjamin Obadiah Foster, 36, is the subject of an intensive, round-the-clock search by police after a woman was found unconscious, bound and near death in Grants Pass, Oregon, on Tuesday. She was hospitalized in critical condition.

On Thursday night, Grants Pass police, sheriff's deputies, an Oregon State Police SWAT team and federal agents raided a property in the unincorporated community of Wolf Creek, some 20 miles (32 kilometers) north of Grants Pass, where they seized Foster's car and arrested a 68-year-old woman for hindering prosecution.

Foster managed to escape. Authorities provided no other details, but the area, right off Interstate 5, is thickly forested and mountainous.

The arrested woman, Tina Marie Jones, had followed Foster in a vehicle earlier Thursday as he drove to a remote location in Wolf Creek then intentionally drove his 2008 Nissan Sentra over an embankment, according to court documents. Jones then gave Foster a ride to the property that was raided Thursday night and where Foster had been hiding while police searched for him, according to Josephine County Circuit Court records.

Grants Pass Police Chief Warren Hensman told AP on Thursday that it is "extremely troubling" that Foster was out and able to prey on other women instead of still being behind bars for the Nevada crimes.

In 2019, before moving to Oregon, Foster held his then-girlfriend captive inside her Las Vegas apartment for two weeks. He initially was charged with five felonies, including assault and battery, and faced decades in prison upon conviction. But in August 2021, Foster reached a deal with Clark County prosecutors that allowed him to plead guilty to one felony count of battery and a misdemeanor count of battery constituting domestic violence.

A judge sentenced him to up to 2 1/2 years in a Nevada prison. The 729 days he had spent in jail awaiting trial were factored into his punishment, leaving Foster with fewer than 200 days to serve in state custody.

Foster's girlfriend suffered seven broken ribs, two black eyes and injuries from being bound at the wrists and ankles with zip ties and duct tape during her two-week captivity, according to a Las Vegas police report.

The woman also told police she was forced to eat lye and was choked to the point of unconsciousness.

She escaped when Foster let her out of his sight during a trip together to a grocery store and gas station.

Court records show, Foster was out of custody at the time on a suspended jail sentence for carrying a concealed weapon without a permit. He also was awaiting trial in another 2018 case involving domestic violence. But Foster's plea deal with prosecutors in 2021 settled the domestic violence case, a copy of the agreement shows, and he was "sentenced to credit for time served."

Police in Grants Pass, a town of some 40,000 in southwest Oregon, said Foster is believed to be armed and "extremely dangerous."

"We are using every piece of technology available to locate this man," said Hensman, the police chief.

Hensman said he didn't have time to think about how authorities in Nevada handled Foster's crimes there.

"Whatever happened in the past," he said, "we can talk about those situations later."

https://www.kxxv.com/news/police-warn-that-oregon-torture-suspect-is-using-dating-apps
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I suppose the 18 year old on the dating app is up to something as well? She is staying in WI for as an exchange student with no drivers license, has a boyfriend in another country. But is open to dating men or women.
 
Well the legal question is would they be using me as a scapegoat for their crime of abduction or scam?

It appears Army guy shared the news article you reposted. So that was my question.
 
Max Max said:
I suppose the 18 year old on the dating app is up to something as well? She is staying in WI for as an exchange student with no drivers license, has a boyfriend in another country. But is open to dating men or women.
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Stick to people your age, in your area, and limit yourself to unambiguously legal activities.

If you lack the ability to make wise decisions about online relationships, then it is best to avoid them.
 
Max Max said:
Well the legal question is would they be using me as a scapegoat for their crime of abduction or scam?

It appears Army guy shared the news article you reposted. So that was my question.
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Most people value their LIFE, because once you assume room temperature, your life has been terminated.

That said, the internet can bring one great joy, or cost one her/his life.

Tread cautiously, mate, the world has millions of very dangerous characters operating all sorts of scams and cons.
 
You are unreal...... Who would want a girlfriend or boyfriend that just sends nude photos to strangers on the internet. It is a cop sting that will be locking your butt up in a jail cell with bubba. Enjoy...
 
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