My daughter is 3, and my brother is 47. My brother has a history of drug abuse, and has been in and out of prison for the majority of his adult life. He currently doesn't hold down a job, he's still injecting heroin and lives with my dad.
My husband and I used to live in TX and we believe he molested our daughter. She only spent one night at my dad's house, and my dad was given instructions for our daughter not to be left alone with my brother just bc of his drug use, and violent behavior. After that night our daughter started acting strange. She would scream and cry when we'd undress her, she wet the bed twice, she'd wake up in the middle of the night screaming and crying and would be inconsolable. Lastly, around her vagina was red the night she came home. Now she a rash on rear that has spread, and turned into what looks like herpes. We took her to her pediatrician who prescribed two different topicals and a strong antibiotic. We gave her all of it but the "rash" never got better, it just got worse. We took her back and they drew blood for STD's. We haven't received the results back yet.
We did contact the police, and spoke to a Detective. He told us the next step is for our daughter to see a Forensic Child Psychologist. Depending on their findings they will then issue a warrant. The problem is, is that our daughter has a speech delay so she can't really tell us what happened. We obviously want to press charges, and sue for the medical bills that we're encountering. Is that possible?
I also forgot...we have a picture from that night she slept over. It's of our daughter naked rear end up in the air in the bath tub. My brother is in the picture. My dad took the picture and sent it to my husband and I bc he thought is was "cute." My dad also later confessed he did not respect our wishes and he did leave her alone with my brother. I believe she slept with him in his room, but I'm not quite sure. Also a few nights after she slept over my husband was watching tv with our daughter on the couch and out of the blue she grabbed his private area knowing full well what she was doing. We've never been naked in front of our daughter, never had sex in front of her and certainly haven't taught her what's down there. Do you think we have a strong case to put my brother away?
My husband and I used to live in TX and we believe he molested our daughter. She only spent one night at my dad's house, and my dad was given instructions for our daughter not to be left alone with my brother just bc of his drug use, and violent behavior. After that night our daughter started acting strange. She would scream and cry when we'd undress her, she wet the bed twice, she'd wake up in the middle of the night screaming and crying and would be inconsolable. Lastly, around her vagina was red the night she came home. Now she a rash on rear that has spread, and turned into what looks like herpes. We took her to her pediatrician who prescribed two different topicals and a strong antibiotic. We gave her all of it but the "rash" never got better, it just got worse. We took her back and they drew blood for STD's. We haven't received the results back yet.
We did contact the police, and spoke to a Detective. He told us the next step is for our daughter to see a Forensic Child Psychologist. Depending on their findings they will then issue a warrant. The problem is, is that our daughter has a speech delay so she can't really tell us what happened. We obviously want to press charges, and sue for the medical bills that we're encountering. Is that possible?
I also forgot...we have a picture from that night she slept over. It's of our daughter naked rear end up in the air in the bath tub. My brother is in the picture. My dad took the picture and sent it to my husband and I bc he thought is was "cute." My dad also later confessed he did not respect our wishes and he did leave her alone with my brother. I believe she slept with him in his room, but I'm not quite sure. Also a few nights after she slept over my husband was watching tv with our daughter on the couch and out of the blue she grabbed his private area knowing full well what she was doing. We've never been naked in front of our daughter, never had sex in front of her and certainly haven't taught her what's down there. Do you think we have a strong case to put my brother away?