Help! My ex girlfriend is trying to destroy me! Domestic Violence & Civil Orders

I suggest you hire a criminal defense attorney, stay off the internet, and stay away from her.

Apparently, you didn't get the message that the relationship was over and kept pushing where you shouldn't have been.

 

Tyler
Stop posting about your criminal case on the internet. Stop bothering the ex. Read the PFA thoroughly and you will likely find an ORDER to stay away from the ex. Do not seek her out. Do not call her. Do not e-mail her. Do not send her a card or letter. Do not text her. Do not have a friend/family member contact her on your behalf. Do not send her a message by carrier pigeon.

Contact Pennsylvania Bar Association > Home for a referral to a criminal law attorney. Discuss your situation only with your attorney.

 

Because the court believes they weren't false.

There should have been an option for you to ask for a hearing on the PFA. I'm guessing you didn't.

And you apparently didn't obey the PFA (foolish and dangerous) and are now being prosecuted.

Please don't post any more details. It won't help you here.

Best advice: lawyer up.

 

You need therapy. We are not therapists. I don't mean to be snide, but this site is for legal matters and not relationship problems. Focus on dealing with/solving your criminal case and then just forget the ex. If she is a neighbor, you may consider moving when your lease is over.

 

Define "in trouble."

She's your ex-girlfriend. Stay physically as far away from her as possible and don't communicate with her and you should be fine.

And hire a criminal defense attorney.

Who says she's getting away with anything, and why do you think it matters whether you did or did not cheat on her?

No, there isn't, and no, it wouldn't. If you think you need to talk about the relationship with someone, visit a therapist.

 

Yes, it did when you saw her on the street. Now, get a lawyer and stay away from her.

 

It okay to wonder why. But it's not okay to violate a PFA.

The rational reaction to a PFA is to avoid the other party like the plague. If you see the other party, do whatever you can to avoid contact of ANY kind. Turn down the next street away from her. If you enter a building and see her, do an about face and WALK OUT. Even if it's a super Walmart.

The only exception to this are court dates.

 

Dude...don't talk to her. That was your first mistake.

Your second mistake is posting it on a public forum.

Go look up criminal defense attorneys in your area and see if any do free consultations. Don't post anymore on here - because anyone can see it. And don't talk to her anymore.