trusting_naive
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Hi, I am a British citizen and have been offered a job at a bank in the US. They've processed my H1b visa application which has been approved and have sent the papers to me on 15th Dec for me to get H1b stamping at the US consulate in London. I am due to start working in the US on 18 January 2011. My original intention for getting a job in the US was because my partner lived there. However, on 11 Dec 2010, I went to the US to move my things out of my partner's house as I wanted to end my abusive relationship. When I tried to leave the relationship, he attacked me and I defended myself with everything in me as I was petrified (this is the 3rd time he has hit me and the first time I defended myself). I also left and said that I will report it to the police. He said that he will call them first. WHen I finally found a police station in the area and was giving my report, another policeman came to me and arrested me because they received a call from my partner indicating that I assaulted him (he has a sexual assault conviction previously and knows the system). They also arrested him. The judge ordered orders of protection against us both and asked for us to return to court on 14 Feb. I am very worried about whether I will be granted the H1b stamp giving the charge of Assault. Through our lawyers, we both agreed to dismiss the charges against each other but the 'People' of the state of NY decided against it due to it being a Domestic Violence case. However, I understand from my lawyer that the Asst District Attorney is also keen to dismiss but awaiting feedback from the officers involved. I will not withhold the truth from the Consulate but is there anything that I can do to help my case in front of the US consulate. I've read on this forum that there is a something called an ACD. Is that useful ? I can't wait till the 14 Feb as my company expects me to work on 18 Jan and I do not wish to reveal to them what happened. I have no prior arrests, convictions. My record is clean. I am an upstanding, educated citizen who got involved with a bad person. I have tried to ask my lawyer to try to get the case seen the week 20-24 Dec 2010 but it's very difficult as many people are off for holiday.
I have some paperwork which lists the charges of him against me but I only a summary of the police's summary of what I reported about my ex (rather than the official charge). The charges against me are:
Class A Misdemeanour Degree 3
- Assault in the 3rd degree
- Attempted Assault in the 3rd degree
- Menacing in the 3rd degree
- Harrassment in the 2nd degree
I think my ex has been charged with the same.
Would appreciate your advice.
I have some paperwork which lists the charges of him against me but I only a summary of the police's summary of what I reported about my ex (rather than the official charge). The charges against me are:
Class A Misdemeanour Degree 3
- Assault in the 3rd degree
- Attempted Assault in the 3rd degree
- Menacing in the 3rd degree
- Harrassment in the 2nd degree
I think my ex has been charged with the same.
Would appreciate your advice.
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