- Jurisdiction
- Florida
A quick summary of a complicated situation is that we are an unmarried couple with a minor daughter of 11. The relationship has been racked with alcoholism, emotional abuse and financial control for some time. Recently threat of physical harm to myself , my daughter and even our family dog have been added to the mix. He has repeatedly threatened to throw us out. He is progressively getting more aggressive and is having rage fits where he says awful things, throws things and tries to intimidate myself and my daughter. To make matters worse my daughter has been having health problems related to not being able to sleep and nausea attacks. Her doctor has prescribed medication for a developing stomach ulcer and suggested she see a therapist for her anxiety. I feel we have to either leave or get him out of the house.
I absolutely do not have any place to go without taking her out of school which I know I cannot do without enrolling her in another which would have to be out of the area. He has total control of all money. The house is in his name and the only thing that I have that says we belong her is a contract I had him sign 5 years ago when he asked me to allow my house to go to foreclosure after a pay cut so that we could still afford this one. It is a legal zoom form with a statement that I would be added to the deed and a letter of financial responsibility or refinancing would take place at that time in both our names. It also states that regardless of all other circumstance that I would have use of the house. It is signed by him , however not witnessed or notarized. He has refused to follow thru with the deed as promised.
My only source of income is a small online business I run from home which is not enough to sustain independent living. I have no doubt I can get on my feet to obtain my own living arrangements, I just need to know if a police office or court would recognize this contract and if so what length of time would I possibly hope for.
My main concern is my daughters safety (and mine) and general well being. I am considering trying to get a temporary restraining order on Monday but am afraid it would not be granted as he has not yet actually physically harmed us. I do not want to be untruthful in any way to obtain one but know the retribution would be horrific if we had to stay here and wait for a court date. There is more to this but I am hoping for any advice asap so I can get a plan going to resolve this. Thank You in advance for any advice.
I absolutely do not have any place to go without taking her out of school which I know I cannot do without enrolling her in another which would have to be out of the area. He has total control of all money. The house is in his name and the only thing that I have that says we belong her is a contract I had him sign 5 years ago when he asked me to allow my house to go to foreclosure after a pay cut so that we could still afford this one. It is a legal zoom form with a statement that I would be added to the deed and a letter of financial responsibility or refinancing would take place at that time in both our names. It also states that regardless of all other circumstance that I would have use of the house. It is signed by him , however not witnessed or notarized. He has refused to follow thru with the deed as promised.
My only source of income is a small online business I run from home which is not enough to sustain independent living. I have no doubt I can get on my feet to obtain my own living arrangements, I just need to know if a police office or court would recognize this contract and if so what length of time would I possibly hope for.
My main concern is my daughters safety (and mine) and general well being. I am considering trying to get a temporary restraining order on Monday but am afraid it would not be granted as he has not yet actually physically harmed us. I do not want to be untruthful in any way to obtain one but know the retribution would be horrific if we had to stay here and wait for a court date. There is more to this but I am hoping for any advice asap so I can get a plan going to resolve this. Thank You in advance for any advice.