Glassman2019
New Member
- Jurisdiction
- Ohio
Im just looking for a little bit of help, maybe missing something.
A year ago, my SO was falsely accused of pinching my son's nipple (not brutally, no traumatic injury and no memory of such a thing) by my ex's mother. Report followed after ex had four days with our child exclusively and 4 days after learning of a new baby due soon after. Report was only filed 15 min after the exchange when confronted for hygiene neglect of said child (7 yr. Old allowed to sit in poop at every exchange that has no medical reason). Grandma denies all, kids tattled on other parent and grandma. This has been on going for years. Professionals agree this is neglect and lazy. Repeat complaints only to be met with no attempts to curb the issue whatsoever. Anyway, grandma contacted family friend at sheriffs office. Her report makes little sense. SO was arrested without any investigation, detective reviewed it and stated no invest was done and the body of the complaint had no merit for an arrest. Court agrees, no merit. Case dismissed with prejudice. Once the other party was informed it was being thrown out, they went to the custody lawyer. Lawyer states it's not worth pursuing. So, they get a different one that takes anything. No new evidence, none actually other than the early case docket omitting the dismissal. Other party wants sole custody and only sole after i have held majority time share and childsupport for many years. Deposition held. Ex stated that they were the one that filed the report (not so), that they had filed this the day they picked child up for the weekend visit (4 days later, not day of) and claimed I was confronted that 1st day about it (phone records prove otherwise). Then they admitted the children were playing ALONE, outside together for SEVERAL hours before a small bruise (dime sized) was noticed and SO allegedly blamed.
GAL doesn't see any reason to alter schedule or arrangements and does not believe the tall tale. SO actually didn't see the child beyond 1 hour that week leading up to it due to work. Couldn't have done it. Childs doctor agrees the timing isn't consistent with the mark according during my visit. There have been several (about 9) previous false calls by the same parties allegeding abuse that were weird and outright proven false. History of nastiness that is literally unwarranted. Constant harassing via court (motions submitted and dismissed) for petty matters, refusal by other party to follow court order starting just days after agreeing to it, etc.. this is after the grandmother's grown daughter (aunt) throwing the same child on their head and walking off Scott free (friends in police dept). Years of nasty threats when I follow the agreed to holiday plan. Years of being followed and watched at home and work. Years of defamation. And hearing that they were trying to coach an innocent child into hating me (CPS recorded this).
Whew. To now. I get a message saying they will only end court battles if I agree to their terms. Which are: end child support (I make 23k/yr vs 75k/yr they think I make more somehow), I not see our child at all on Christmas eve, Christmas day, new years day and small part of Easter, that they assume majority (75%) physical custody, they get the whole week of a yearly fair exclusively every year and other holidays determined according to their suggested schedule only. This person only actually had our child 1/4 or 1/3 nights a week that they were granted by choice and not related to work. Grandmother spoke freely of this until it backfired with the GAL. The Other parent wanted to party for 6 years freely instead of being a parent. Statements have been made directly by the other parent, repeatedly, that they didn't want to pay child support and wouldn't stop until they took my rights away and ended it (no living expenses for them living at home making 75k/yr vs 20k-ish).
No way in hell would I ever agree to it. The false allegation cost us 10k. Wiped out the funds that I've worked so hard for to buy a home. I was trying to close a deal on a house right when this happened and getting married. They knew this. The grandmother is a control freak. The entire family shows up to pretrials without invite by court. Talking 8 people not related to the case. It's weird. It's a circus. Saving for a new attorney. In the mean time, I'm trying to sort files out. I've saved every message, nasty voicemail, etc for the last 6 years just in case. I'm generally a calm person... this stuff is almost laughable.
A year ago, my SO was falsely accused of pinching my son's nipple (not brutally, no traumatic injury and no memory of such a thing) by my ex's mother. Report followed after ex had four days with our child exclusively and 4 days after learning of a new baby due soon after. Report was only filed 15 min after the exchange when confronted for hygiene neglect of said child (7 yr. Old allowed to sit in poop at every exchange that has no medical reason). Grandma denies all, kids tattled on other parent and grandma. This has been on going for years. Professionals agree this is neglect and lazy. Repeat complaints only to be met with no attempts to curb the issue whatsoever. Anyway, grandma contacted family friend at sheriffs office. Her report makes little sense. SO was arrested without any investigation, detective reviewed it and stated no invest was done and the body of the complaint had no merit for an arrest. Court agrees, no merit. Case dismissed with prejudice. Once the other party was informed it was being thrown out, they went to the custody lawyer. Lawyer states it's not worth pursuing. So, they get a different one that takes anything. No new evidence, none actually other than the early case docket omitting the dismissal. Other party wants sole custody and only sole after i have held majority time share and childsupport for many years. Deposition held. Ex stated that they were the one that filed the report (not so), that they had filed this the day they picked child up for the weekend visit (4 days later, not day of) and claimed I was confronted that 1st day about it (phone records prove otherwise). Then they admitted the children were playing ALONE, outside together for SEVERAL hours before a small bruise (dime sized) was noticed and SO allegedly blamed.
GAL doesn't see any reason to alter schedule or arrangements and does not believe the tall tale. SO actually didn't see the child beyond 1 hour that week leading up to it due to work. Couldn't have done it. Childs doctor agrees the timing isn't consistent with the mark according during my visit. There have been several (about 9) previous false calls by the same parties allegeding abuse that were weird and outright proven false. History of nastiness that is literally unwarranted. Constant harassing via court (motions submitted and dismissed) for petty matters, refusal by other party to follow court order starting just days after agreeing to it, etc.. this is after the grandmother's grown daughter (aunt) throwing the same child on their head and walking off Scott free (friends in police dept). Years of nasty threats when I follow the agreed to holiday plan. Years of being followed and watched at home and work. Years of defamation. And hearing that they were trying to coach an innocent child into hating me (CPS recorded this).
Whew. To now. I get a message saying they will only end court battles if I agree to their terms. Which are: end child support (I make 23k/yr vs 75k/yr they think I make more somehow), I not see our child at all on Christmas eve, Christmas day, new years day and small part of Easter, that they assume majority (75%) physical custody, they get the whole week of a yearly fair exclusively every year and other holidays determined according to their suggested schedule only. This person only actually had our child 1/4 or 1/3 nights a week that they were granted by choice and not related to work. Grandmother spoke freely of this until it backfired with the GAL. The Other parent wanted to party for 6 years freely instead of being a parent. Statements have been made directly by the other parent, repeatedly, that they didn't want to pay child support and wouldn't stop until they took my rights away and ended it (no living expenses for them living at home making 75k/yr vs 20k-ish).
No way in hell would I ever agree to it. The false allegation cost us 10k. Wiped out the funds that I've worked so hard for to buy a home. I was trying to close a deal on a house right when this happened and getting married. They knew this. The grandmother is a control freak. The entire family shows up to pretrials without invite by court. Talking 8 people not related to the case. It's weird. It's a circus. Saving for a new attorney. In the mean time, I'm trying to sort files out. I've saved every message, nasty voicemail, etc for the last 6 years just in case. I'm generally a calm person... this stuff is almost laughable.
