Dungeon Hiring Practices

[StephanieM]

You do know that only men can be Doms right?

No, I did not know that, because it's not true.

1) Evolutionarily speaking the human evolved from scavenger to hunter because of it's brains. IT was not due to claws, scavengers are fairly defenseless animals which use scare tactics and must be very smart. We were to learn to dominate and extinguish other species until the evolving humans became so smart they realized there was a finite quality to this, their domination was complete, and we must learn to fit in to the eco system.

IN this way, we can see that biology dictates the humans who are smartest probably dominate, this could be male or female

2) In my world, the ones with intelligence to create alliances and power are dominant, muscles only = brute. Much like a horse or elephant has muscles, so does a dog. but this makes them a worker, not a top. The top would be the one with less muscles - the human driving them.

So it is with a female Domme, and her more muscled "bottom" males.

As well, it is well documented that anyone larger can be abused and dominated by someone smaller, by twisting their minds around until they live in fear; and non consensual abuse is often perpetrated on men by women, and by smaller men.

3) Females in general are often extremely physically adept, so old sexist biological arguments no longer stand, just as the old scientific biological arguments that "blacks brains are smaller" has been seen to be false and led by biased desires to theorize on what some wanted in that time period.

In the animal world (Animal Queendom as I like to say) female lions protect their cubs with a ferocity unmatched, some female spiders prey on and kill their male counterparts, and so on. in other species, the male is more physically strong. So there is no bearing in your muddled brain's arguments for strength as a domination, even if you subscribe to the philosophy of "might is right" which most condemn as a moronic argument.

And as previously stated, musculature has no true bearing on dominance.

4) One could argue that even in a stripper world where women are forced to dance like puppets on a string for the customer's money and desires, that even She is the one in control with the power. Because in another POV, the female is taking the man's hard earned money for nothing, using and robbing him as much as possible, getting him to work harder and harder for her as she lies, manipulates, and uses sales tactics on his brain.

I understand that you were saying this to try to get under my skin, or because your mind thinks in the old sexist ways or because you are secretly interested in dominant women. I enjoyed the chance to set the record clear.

 

[StephanieM]

PS - jharris, there is nothing to be afraid of if you have a secret desire to be subbed. subs are actually very strong people. which is more of a man, the one who attacks a woman, verbally or physically, or the one who can withstand physical pain in her honor?

many male subs revile and are not attracted to the common subjugation of women present in "marinstream" porn.

some have learned from that porn, a wish to be in that lower position, themselves.

others are gentlemen with no place to go.

some are men who fantasize about crossing countries to defend a woman they adore, to protect her from any macho person who attempts to harm her.

the country may despise "nice" people, but I respect, admire, and love my (true) subs. especially my cuckolds.

 

[StephanieM]

I apologize, jharris, but I am not able to reply to your private message as I am new on this forum.

So I'll reply here. And then I am done with you, because I do not allow people like you into my life - you are not worth it, you are useless and worth nothing to Me.

Funny, one day you will probably worship me in the vanilla world.

but whether someone wishes to be a top or a bottom is their own choice, and one I respect.

Your letter:

"Dear, I use to specialize in making submissives out of dommes. I've been a Master Dominant for 10 years and a Dom for 20. Don't embarrass yourself. Good luck with your business. Don't disrespect yourself by not showing proper respect to others. I don't display my life to everyone. I was joking with you. Show some respect.

Good luck with your business."

Here's My response, dear:

"yes I've met your type many times

I drop them like flies as soon as I sniff them out

to me you are not a real man. and you are not a real Master. I know several Masters who I get along very respectfully - some even get sessions with Me as they want and crave My dominance from time to time.

in fact a true master, like a good mistress, is in control and respectful of subs and dommes, and so you should be supportive.

you sound to me like a scared little boy who likes to abuse those smaller. probably because you were abused or you are gay

bullies are not men, they are loosers

your hatred of woman is noted; usually a woman hating man is a homosexual who can't come to terms with his desires and is intensely jealous, threatened by, and wishes to be a woman so he can have boys

men who like women, enjoy pleasing them.

good luck finding yourself~!"

 

[StephanieM]

I'll amend my response above - perhaps you have issues as well because the culture sees something wrong with a sub.

Which is completely untrue. Where would the world be without the qualities of both?

I think everyone has a bit of both but leans one way or the other.

So what you do is silly and meaningless, and non-consensual or deserved, which is a crime in My world.

I'm still done with you however, until you can clear up your issues and learn some respect for Dommes

If you can apologize, then I'll respect you. And, you can then be flattered that you were important enough to warrant an impact on me.

It's when you find your true power that you start to learn desire to use it with respect.

 

[cbg]

Okay, I don't generally do this but I think this thread has gone far enough.