Are they allowed to make me bring in my duaghter to see my ex when paternity has not even been proven? I just started filing for child support so there is no legal ties between him and my daighter yet a judge gave us a court order to go through this childrens Advocacy for visitation... Now I want to work with these people and the judge because I do not want to look like I am with holding her from him because of what happened.. But I don't see how its fair that I have to turn my child over to complete strangers so they can give her to a complete stranger for an hour... Is this legal?? I did tell them I knew for sure he was the father and they said why delay it? I say ( but didn't say this) If he wants to see her he will jump through hoops of fire right? So what is one little test?