- Jurisdiction
- California
Hi I'm in California I have a 9 year old son I lost custody of about 5 years ago I have been back in his life 3 years going on 4 years now I have no rights to him but I seen him about two times a month and all holiday s and I get him most of his summer break and Christmas break and spring break I wanted to go back to court and seeing about getting 50/50 physical custody and have it on paper and knowing I will have him every other weekend and holidays not just when his dad choose s but I talked to his father and he doesn't believe I deserve 50/50 custody even though I get him about two weeks out of the month and all the holidays and maybe more I'm not trying to take him out of his school and his father s house just for me to bet every other weekend I recently got 50/50 physical and legal custody back of my daughter and I have her 80% of the time but we agreed at mediation with my daughter but with my son he doesn't want mediation or court he just wants it to be when he says and I'm scared if I go through court I won't get it and he'll fight me to not have every other weekend even tho he gives me two time out of the month and holidays I just need advice what to do