I am anOregon resident who was married for 1 1/2 years, and we have two kids. 2 weeks ago my husband left me, with no warning, no food, gas, or money. I was a stay at home mom and he refuses to help me with rent etc.. while I seek employment. He is all I have here in Oregon, my family lives in Idaho. I feel I need to turn to my family for help but he says I cannot leave the state. He says that he will take the kids and I can go home alone, but I will go to my grave before losing my children. Can I leave the state? Why shouldn't he have to give up his support system and move to Idaho too, so he could be around his kids. Would a judge consider that he left me with no choice but to leave? Please help, thank you