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skee
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- Iowa
I'm going through a divorce, and my wife had met another man who is married.
They started an affair. She then moved in with him and his wife. They are all agreeable to this. He and his wife have 3 kids.
She has integrated into the family and considers herself a co-mother and has become best friends with his wife.
The problem comes in that she takes our daughter there. I had been ok with it when I thought he was a single father, which is what she has told me until my daughter told me the truth yesterday.
My daughter has been keeping the secret for months, but she hates being there, is uncomfortable with the situation in many levels and has been anxious and depressed keeping the secret.
Now she's terrified that her mom will be angry at her for not keeping the secret.
When I confronted her, she happily admitted it.
She then said that she has formed "an unconditional family" and that my daughter will be integrated into our whether I or my daughter like it or not.
Is this a thing? Is this a common thing with a term and a definition? And if I don't like it, is there any recourse?
They started an affair. She then moved in with him and his wife. They are all agreeable to this. He and his wife have 3 kids.
She has integrated into the family and considers herself a co-mother and has become best friends with his wife.
The problem comes in that she takes our daughter there. I had been ok with it when I thought he was a single father, which is what she has told me until my daughter told me the truth yesterday.
My daughter has been keeping the secret for months, but she hates being there, is uncomfortable with the situation in many levels and has been anxious and depressed keeping the secret.
Now she's terrified that her mom will be angry at her for not keeping the secret.
When I confronted her, she happily admitted it.
She then said that she has formed "an unconditional family" and that my daughter will be integrated into our whether I or my daughter like it or not.
Is this a thing? Is this a common thing with a term and a definition? And if I don't like it, is there any recourse?