My husband and I been separated for over three years . His father recently died. I was told he's worth more married when dad dies. I would like a divorce but in the past he would not give me one. I'm not sure of his address. There may be monies in irrevocable trust that are his. How can I find this and get divorced with my cut. I supported him for 14 years and through his cancer and all. I have no prenup.