wellsgirl19
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is it okay for a 16 year old girl to date a 28 year old man if they do not have sex ?
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is it okay for a 16 year old girl to date a 28 year old man if they do not have sex ?
The 28 year old can still end up in jail even if there is no sex.
Well, if he encourages her to be out of her parents' control, run away, sneak out, etc. ... yeah, he probably can. Simply for running into her and holding hands at the park, no. But, if he encourages or aids her in any manner of delinquency, he might be held to account (depending on applicable state laws, of couse).Not for dating, he won't.
Most states are not going to permit a restraining order simply because this guy likes their daughter ... few states allow such an order without some form of threat or risk of harm.If the parents don't want him around, that's an easy one - restraining order fixes it (as much as is possible, at least)
BIG TIME!!If they're doing other..questionable...things but no intercourse, yeap - that can lead to trouble.
Maybe he has ... maybe he/they got caught sneaking out and that's why she's asking. But, no violation has yet been mentioned.But other than that? He's not breaking any laws. Yet.
As for the situation itself?
Op. Please listen.
A 28 year old who wants to date you is doing something called "grooming". He doesn't care about you. He doesn't care about you one teeny little bit. His priority is to have you entrenched in his own little disturbed life.
He is going to break you down, emotionally, until you're so brow-beaten and tired that you'll go along with anything he says. HE WILL DO THIS. There are no exceptions. None. He is not the exception, he is not "different" and he definitely does not love you.
Why isn't he around people his own age? Because he doesn't feel equal, he doesn't feel accepted, he has no control. He feels inadequate.
Why is he around a 16 year old? Because he can control her, and that makes him feel less inadequate. She is vulnerable, she is impressionable and she doesn't have significant worldliness and she is eager to impress.
The truth is, he is a threat to any teen.
Not for dating, he won't.
If the parents don't want him around, that's an easy one - restraining order fixes it (as much as is possible, at least)
If they're doing other..questionable...things but no intercourse, yeap - that can lead to trouble.
But other than that? He's not breaking any laws. Yet.
Depending how things actually go down, laws for contributing to delinquency, enticing, concealing, and court order violations all could be in play even if the 28 year old never lays a hand on the minor.
This all greatly depends upon how the parents decide to act on the matter.
Their "dating", if against the parents wishes, could still land the adult in jail.