- Jurisdiction
- New York
My daughter who is one month past her 17th birthday. Just have birth to a baby. Her boyfriend who I was told was 18 years of age. Right before the baby was born, my daughters boyfriend was very disrespectful and I asked him to leave my home. As I will not tolerate that kind of behavior. He caused a big seen my daughter was 9 months pregnant. Needless to say cops were called. He left. My daughter ended up giving birth 6 days later which was a week and a half early due to preeclampsia. I stayed with my daughter throughout the hospital stay. Even picked up the boyfriend at 4 in the morning for him to see his newborn son. He was rude and blamed me he missed the birth of his son. I went home after this and had not returned to the hospital until my daughter was discharged as the boyfriend stayed and I refused to be around him. So that is the background. This is my issue. I cleaned my daughters room so when she came home the baby had a clean environment, as my daughter does not like to clean. Upon cleaning I found the boyfriends drivers license in her belongings which showed he was not 18 years of age. He was 21. So here we have my newly turned 17 year old daughter, who became pregnant at 16 years old, and her boyfriend who is apparently 21 years of age. This was a huge argument. And feared my daughter would run away with her baby to stay with boyfriends family. I said nothing more than he is not allowed or welcome in my home. In the family car. In retaliation the boyfriend had threatened to come get my daughter with his son and will take me to court if he has to. Now I don't know the law very well. But is this something he can actually do. And does he have a foot to stand on. Because if what I have been reading from the Internet, this is statutory rape. Because of the ages. And am I held accountable for something I was not aware of until after the damage was done. Meaning her being pregnant and delivering. What rights do I have legally. And is there anything that can be done without being in trouble myself for something I did not know at the time.