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LOL this is my opinion only... As far as the $1000 a month support example I dont feel that the support payer should be resposible for the other parents entire mortage payment, car payment, the whole households food. Children that I've raised DO NOT eat $400 worth of food in a month....if so...

First of all didn't you say you werent going to comment?:yes:...Second I DO NOT think that the custodial parent should be SOLELY responsible for a child. In fact I said no such thing. I believe, and this is my opinion, that if you've been given the choice to have the child and be the custodial...

Ok heres the background. Dad and mom have joint custody with mom having physical. Child and Mom live with Mom's Mother. Mom doesn't have to pay any expenses other than cell phone bill and gas for work. Mom doesn't have to pay for food she gets food stamps, Doesn't pay rent, or heating. Literally...

First I have to say that dads child support isn't "all they've got too" If mom has income they have hers too. Yes child support may technically be the "childrens money" but that isn't always whats going on... I would say if the severence is going to be a nice size and you think they might try to...

Personally I think that child support is flawed. I don't believe it should be based on the NCP's income. I think its insane to think that a child could ever cost $1000 a month to raise!! And there are people out there that spend many of thousands a MONTH because of their income. For one, if you...

Funny thing is is that my husband spoke with a lawyer for his custody case and the childs mother was doing the same thing as this father, so the lawyer said some similar advice. Write it all down, time, location, details. When my husband went to court the judge didn't care about what he had...

I wouldn't think written accusations are considered proof. I could write down all kinds of stuff about my ex that doesn't make it facts, ya know what I mean? There may be a better way to prove what your saying is going on than just writting it down. Also depending on your income you might be...

I think Army Judge's advice is right on!

Thanks jharris352 very good info. Great point that if dad has joint custody he would be able to sign. Just to clarify what I said earlier. I never implied that she would be able to get emacipated because she was pregnant. Just that if she was able to get emancipated(for other reasons other...

LOL just saying that the only way she would be able to marry him is to have mom sign or if she was emancipated....Never said it was possible or that that would be the answer to her problems. Pretty sure I gave factual info. if not I could see an issue.

The only way you could get married to him is if you were able to get emancipated or if she would sign giving you permission. Since that doesn't sound likely to happen you could look up the law in your state about emancipation. You would have to have a very good case to justify emancipation...

Also if you are that worried about what would happen to the girls if anything happened to you then you might also want to make sure you have maybe a term life ins. policy that would leave money to whomever you would want as the guardian just incase they would need any financial help in the event...

Army judge is right. You can accept eachother as brothers. My husband has several brothers that are not blood but that doesn't make them anyless his brothers. It's very common.

not saying I'm giving this as advice....hypothetically if she moved to VA to live with him is there anything that mom would be able to do about it? And Proserpina is right there is NO WAY she can force you to let her adopt your baby! Young or not thats your baby and nobody can take that away...

sounds like he might be waking up now. He may not have seemed to you to have cared then but that doesn't mean that he didnt! If he wants to see the children then you're going to have to bring them to him or face contempt and jail. I don't see how moving 17hrs away from the father is in the...

Thanks pro! I've seen the post history. I just wanted to let dnkg know that she is not in the wrong here for asking advice. She may not know Lonelynny's post history. I know I would have loved it if back when I first asked a question as a stepmom and got Lynny type resonses if someone would have...

I would say dad should have a very good chance at getting custody while mom is in rehab. If mom is going to be in rehab for possibly a year someone will have to have custody of the child durring this time period yknow. Where is the child staying right now while mom is in rehab? I'm not sure what...

She is only asking our opinion on this case for her husbands benifit. I do not agree that her involvement will damage dad's case. So long as she is not making an issue at court dads case should be completely uneffected by her. She may be an involved stepparent but that does not mean the judge is...

if she is actually dealing with what she says she is she needs to get help and then from there an adult will decide whats best.I do agree living with her fiance isn't the best solution but if she is dealing with abuse she atleast needs out of that....wherever that would be. If she's being...

I think you should go to jail or have a fine! especially if you didn't get his permission to move the child 17 hours away and you're purposfully disobeying the court order! There's a court order for a reason! It is to be followed! Not just that but the child needs a father and if he's trying to...