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    unfair treatment at work//possible discrimination

    I'd like to add a nonlegal observation. As a temporary employee who is hoping for a full time job in this economy, the last thing he should do is to tell his prospective employer that he doesn't want to work a particular shift. What if that's the only shift open for new hires? What if...
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    Sex Crimes, Sex Offenders Sexual Offender Status?

    The following should answer your questions. I recommend that you visit the site. It will explain the registration requirements which are more involved than simply being listed on the website. As far as allowing him to be near children, although it's permitted, I wouldn't leave him alone with...
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    Child Support

    One of the reasons for child support is so that the child(ren) will have a standard of living that is as close as possible to what it would have been had the parents stayed together. This is actually written in Illinois code, as well as a few other states. THAT'S one reason it's based on a...
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    name change minor of 2yrs

    The father will have to be notified, and will have the right to object. That doesn't mean the name can't be changed, but it isn't necessarily a slam dunk.
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    fighting to retain alimony

    Wow, check the statutes. Illinois DOES award permanent maintenance and it's not all that uncommon. It does NOT end until a judge says it does, not simply because the obligor is out of work. So, yes, it CAN last forever, or rather until the death of one of the parties. And, yes, he DOES...
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    Child Name Change

    I'd like to add just a little qualifier. If the father does object, I believe it's very possible that the court will deny the name change. There's a big difference, IMO, between the father's child having the mother's maiden name and the father's child having the step-father's name (even though...
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    Lump sum payment from separation agreement tax deductible?

    I'm no tax expert, but I don't believe you can deduct it. It seems to be part of your property settlement, not alimony or spousal support. Stay tuned for more replies.
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    Personal injury case

    Not disagreeing, but confused I suppose. If the injury affected his ability to contribute to marital earnings, isn't the STBX entitled to some portion of the settlement?
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    Father putthing child in harms way

    IF your court order states what you say it does, then your ex is in contempt of the order. You can take him back to court to have the order enforced. That's all there is to it, IF your order is as restrictive as you claim. BTW, I believe you're wrong about the rights of visitation...
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    Siblings custody in time of only parent passing?

    Are you aware that this thread is 18 months old????? :confused::confused:
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    Rights of unwed parents state to state

    I don't understand how this helps, or in what way it addresses the OP's questions. Am I missing something?
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    Father putthing child in harms way

    I live in Illinois, and I'm a little curious about a few things. Why were you granted an order of protection? Did he harm you physically? Why did the judge restrict his girlfriend from caring for the child? That's pretty unusual unless there's a compelling reason. Why did the judge say...
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    Thanks for the rep, that was nice. :)

    Thanks for the rep, that was nice. :)
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    taxes & divorce decree

    Before rushing off to court, your husband ought to ask his ex if she claimed both kids. It's possible that she claimed only the minor.
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    not on house title

    Whose name is on the mortgage? It sounds like your husband is paying rent which happens to cover the mortgage. Since the parents own the home, I don't believe you have any claim to it or its equity.
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    separation? divorce? our home?

    Your next step is to get a lawyer to be sure that you are protected. If you're getting divorced and you want to keep the house, you will have to assume responsibility for the payments and have the house refinanced in your name only. If not, then you can request that your wife share the...
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    Is private school tuition that was agreed be paid by me still required if my Spouse

    It is probably still your responsibility to pay, however it depends on how the order is worded. You may be able to file for a modification based on the tuition waiver, or you can contact the school to let them know that you are already paying for half the tuition so they can adjust the waiver.
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    Sole physical custody

    Yes, you can do that if you're both in agreement; however, it still has to go through the court. A lawyer can't make it legalized or official without a court order. If you both agree, the court process will be cheaper, quicker, and simpler.
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    out of state divorce WITH children

    He will have to consult with an attorney. It is possible to file in Texas if the children still have a significant connection to Texas; that is, they have visited their father or other relatives during the past 2 years. If not, then Texas may no longer have jurisdiction over the custody issues.
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    visitation

    He should head back to court to modify the visitation order to establish a set schedule. He should be documenting all his attempts at visitation. If there is an order for support, then he should continue to pay it, but keep records, such as cancelled checks. I don't understand what you mean...
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