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if you haven't guessed... I am just making fun of you :) by being your polar opposite. I have better uses for my money (OBVIOUSLY). It does feel good to think about it though :)

Actually, the more I think about it... the more I like option 3. It would be worth my money to make this harder on the people who caused this to happen than it was on me over the years. Typically, I would prefer to think that whomever is right should win... but I have a different view now...

It may seem silly... but this is the first time I have really been fully confronted with the notion of judges being PEOPLE too. Most seem so oblivious to the impact that law has on lives, and seem not to realize that simply punishing the guilty is too idealistic a hope to wish for. Perhaps it...

AND... just in case this clarification is necessary... I am not going to live with her. I have a wife and two kids that are coming with me. I just want to return so that my daughter can spend more time with me and so that I can keep my X out of trouble. She can't really afford to live so I'll...

That idea was not lost on me, but she had plenty of opportunities. Actually, she has equally selfish motivations for wanting to help (or perhaps more selfish). Among other reasons, I paid to free her of the same charge. Believe it or not, she was taken to jail twice on DV charges over the...

I have always entertained the possibility that she lied that night, though the claimed that she had not. There is an inherrent instinct in people that drives them to try to paint someone they are angry at in the worst possible light, and many people don't really make a distinction over the...

You are deffinately right about all of the should-haves... but what good is proving one's innocence if one has no home or job to return to afterward? Anyway, the "Victim" wants to help me resolve this, because she blames them for us seperating. I suspect that you are correct about getting an...

Thanks for responding. I had a hunch that it was something like that. I have to wonder if it might be worth hiring an attorney (now that I can afford one) to actually interact with this situation. Moreover, fixing this particular issue is like fixing an infection with an ice pack. The real...

8 years ago I found myself in the unfortunate position of being charged with misdomeaner Domestic Violence for which there was no evidence (not even a victim to supply a testimony). Unfortunately, the cost of inocence was higher than the cost of guilt and I was forced to choose between not...