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Hello specialists. I Am a father of a 4 year old daughter. I am seperated with my ex but we never were married. I love my daughter very very much. We have a really good bond.. The situation now is so so wrong and i feel hopeless because it seems impossible to find the appropriate lawyer.. However this is so deeply wrong and i have zero control over this. We would be gratefull forever if i find somebody that can help me. My ex used me to get pregnant after we were Just 3 months togheter. The reason is because her 3 older brothers all had children before her. She has a very close bond with her family with almost weekly family meetings/partys. It didnt took long after my daughter was born that she left me after she stole the gastank card from my job. Wich lead to me loosing my job. Then she left me and killed my cat with a garden tool.. And now comes the best part. My narcistic mother completely destroyed me mentally by making deals with my ex. My mother abused me physically when i was very young. When i got older it changed to emotional abuse. Now i have a daughter and i am a very good father for her. I give her a very bright education in every way possible. She loves me very much and she is everything to me. Unfortunatly my mother cant stand this and she takes my daughter away from me on any way she can.. off course my ex finds this even more amusing... the emotional pain i am going trough the past months is so severe i cannot sleep anymore. This is getting more and more often! A few months ago my mother went so far she actually succeeded in putting me away in a mental hospital for 40 days. She briebd a doctor wich i dont know to write down i have several mental disorders..... she also said i use drugs and even i have tried to put the house of my grandparents on fire!!!! I have the report from the institution i was put in . It contains several toxic examination reports wich were live monitored from start to finish. These state : I never used drugs and was negative on every blood and urine test. I do NOT have any mental problem.. Since then i have developed a high blood pressure and a fast bpm rate. The stress pain and helpless feelings are getting worse and worse when they keep doing this.. It is devastating me so badly i cant even work anymore because i cannot sleep. This entire situation is so wrong and the real victim is my daughter! I really pray now someone must be out there that can help me. Please contact me if you or someone that can help me is willing to do so. Me and my daughter Jinthe will be very gratefull forever


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Hello specialists. I Am a father of a 4 year old daughter. I am seperated with my ex but we never were married. I love my daughter very very much. We have a really good bond.. The situation now is so so wrong and i feel hopeless because it seems impossible to find the appropriate lawyer.. However this is so deeply wrong and i have zero control over this. We would be gratefull forever if i find somebody that can help me. My ex used me to get pregnant after we were Just 3 months togheter. The reason is because her 3 older brothers all had children before her. She has a very close bond with her family with almost weekly family meetings/partys. It didnt took long after my daughter was born that she left me after she stole the gastank card from my job. Wich lead to me loosing my job. Then she left me and killed my cat with a garden tool.. And now comes the best part. My narcistic mother completely destroyed me mentally by making deals with my ex. My mother abused me physically when i was very young. When i got older it changed to emotional abuse. Now i have a daughter and i am a very good father for her. I give her a very bright education in every way possible. She loves me very much and she is everything to me. Unfortunatly my mother cant stand this and she takes my daughter away from me on any way she can.. off course my ex finds this even more amusing... the emotional pain i am going trough the past months is so severe i cannot sleep anymore. This is getting more and more often! A few months ago my mother went so far she actually succeeded in putting me away in a mental hospital for 40 days. She briebd a doctor wich i dont know to write down i have several mental disorders..... she also said i use drugs and even i have tried to put the house of my grandparents on fire!!!! I have the report from the institution i was put in . It contains several toxic examination reports wich were live monitored from start to finish. These state : I never used drugs and was negative on every blood and urine test. I do NOT have any mental problem.. Since then i have developed a high blood pressure and a fast bpm rate. The stress pain and helpless feelings are getting worse and worse when they keep doing this.. It is devastating me so badly i cant even work anymore because i cannot sleep. This entire situation is so wrong and the real victim is my daughter! I really pray now someone must be out there that can help me. Please contact me if you or someone that can help me is willing to do so. Me and my daughter Jinthe will be very gratefull forever Ewalt Ruts e-mail edited out@hotmail.com

The attorneys that volunteer on this site do not troll for clients...but even if they did they are located in various states of the United States and you, apparently, are in another country. I suggest you find a family law attorney. I also suggest you seek therapy to help with the depression and anxiety you seem to be feeling right now. Good luck to you and I hope your situation is resolved soon with the best of results for your child.
 
I Am a father of a 4 year old daughter. I am seperated with my ex but we never were married.

Sorry, but this website concentrates on legal matters related to the US Federal government, her 50 states, the District of Columbia, and her half dozen odd territories.

No one that I know of practices law in the EU and/or your native Belgium.
 
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